Tom Mosgaller - Community Building, Pulling Together, and Citizen Change - Ep. #44
Tom Mosgaller is an author, experienced community builder, teacher, and leader who believes that the power of relationships is the cornerstone of strong, vibrant communities. Tom has led, taught, and coached community builders in the art of pulling together in places both big and small, urban and rural, locally, and internationally. He has celebrated successes and learned from setbacks that inspired the timeless lessons captured in the Change Framework that serves as the backbone of his book, "Pulling Together: A Handbook for Community Change". He is past president of the American Society for Quality (ASQ), and co-author of the recently published book on institutional change: Bending Granite. Tom has led and served on numerous educational, healthcare, governmental, faith-based, and agricultural boards. When Tom is not leading, teaching, and working with others, he can be found learning from the land and animals on his farm in the Driftless Area of Wisconsin.
In this episode, Tom and Brad discuss his leaving the family farm (that didn't have indoor plumbing) for the seminary at 12 years old, being drafted and serving in Vietnam, his career in community building (with some GREAT stories), co-writing a book with another author whose political beliefs rest in a different place than Tom's yet they find common ground in their hopes and visions for positive change in humanity, directing change management, the four attributes of citizen leaders, and MANY other things.
https://www.pulling-together.com/
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today with Tom Muskala, author,
community builder, fascinating
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life path that we get into a lot
of in today's episode.
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Leaves his Door County family
farm at 12 years old for the
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seminary and that kicks off this
weaving wandering life path of
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just fascinating stops.
Gets drafted into Vietnam.
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We talked about that a little
bit comes back from Vietnam and
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here's about community building
and how we can impact
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communities positively.
Works in Chicago for a little
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while.
Awesome story of a project in
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Philadelphia where a group that
he headed up fought for
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accommodations on public
transportation which circled
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around and became relevant to
his life so many years later.
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Awesome story And the one of the
premises or the the undertones
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of his messaging is to give
people the skills to act on
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something you care about, your
dreams, your discontents,
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something where you can create
positive change in the world.
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And that's what Tom's all about,
giving people the tools and
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empowering them to do those
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Enjoy the episode.
Tom Muscular.
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Tom Moss, Scholar, Thank you for
joining me.
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Thanks for saying my name right.
I did my.
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I did my homework, I did my
homework and I and I read most
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of your book.
I didn't get it finished yet.
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I heard you say earlier that
there's one from the UP.
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I'm not there yet.
Is it towards the end?
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The end story, the last story is
AUP story.
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OK, I'm excited to talk with
you.
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I'm excited to talk with you for
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Initially it was because of the
concept that that you and, and
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your co-author have kind of
brought to light.
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Now since we had a chance to
talk on the phone for a little
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while, it it's even more so just
to talk with you 'cause your
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story is fascinating.
So I've been waiting for this
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for a while and I, I think
where, where to start is
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conceptually we'll take the
calendar back in a little while
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and, and get to some of that
story.
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But I think I, I'd like to know
what, what, what brought you to
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this idea of writing this book?
How did you think of someone
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with ideological differences and
coming together to do something
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that you know, builds in a
different way than at least
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what's told to us on a, on a
daily basis?
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How'd you come up with it?
So it's not for me, it's not a
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new idea.
As somebody who's been a
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community builder most of his
life, whether I was working
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inside of an institution or in
community from the bottom up,
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it's always it's never been
about kind of IU them us,
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because you can't build strong
communities when you're always
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thinking about ideological
differences.
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You got to work on those things
you got in common things you can
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work on that make a difference
that really means something to
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people locally.
And so all my life, you know, I
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grew up in in with that is kind
of and and it started when I was
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a kid on the farm up in Door
County, right.
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I mean, we had to work together.
I'm old enough to know what it
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was like in the transition from
combining grain to back to
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thrashing.
We were just in the shift, right
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when I was in the 50 in the
1950s and farmers had to work
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together.
We had no choice.
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I mean, you had a butcher
together.
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You had to cut wood together.
You had to put your grain in.
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You know, we share sheet Cedars,
different equipment in order to
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do things, harvesting,
thrashing, all of that.
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You had to work together.
And so there were days when we
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were thrashing and I was a
little boy.
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I mean, our rule of thumb was
you couldn't drive a tractor
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until you were heavy enough to
push the clutch in.
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That was that was it.
So I probably was 7 when I
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started driving tractor, right?
I gained enough weight.
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And so I would be out in the
field where you're thrashing and
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you're pulling a wagon and
people are throwing bundles of
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grain onto the wagon.
And when we had good days,
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everybody'd be talking to
everybody else.
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And then the next day, I could
tell as a kid something was
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going on that I didn't know
about, where the Lutherans may
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be on one side of the wagons and
the Catholics on the other.
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And they didn't talk.
They didn't talk, but they
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didn't walk either.
They stayed getting the grain in
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'cause their farm was next in
line, you know.
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So you learn from those kind of
stories, right, Not to spend
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your time on the differences.
You learn.
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Yeah, we got differences.
Hell, they were.
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They have orange tractors.
We have green tractors.
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But you know, we all got to pull
together.
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Yeah.
So that's a concept I often
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think about is that do you think
that some of the that
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polarization or divide that we
see on a daily basis is because
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of some of those struggles look
different today than they did
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then there's they're not so
immediately apparent and there
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in our lives.
You know, it's hard to just kind
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of assume I know what the answer
is, right?
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But I do have my theories,
right, Which is it's a more
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complicated time and there's far
more noise in the system right
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now.
I mean, you've got a lot of
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forces pulling on you, and
depending upon where you get
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your information, you're going
to hear certain things that are
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going to drive the way you view
the world.
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And if you only listen to that,
right, it's going to set you up
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for a certain view of the world.
That only puts you into a deeper
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box in separation, right?
Yeah, and you have to make the,
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you have to make the mental
choice to get out of that.
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Box.
That's right.
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That's right.
Absolutely.
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I thought that was a perfect
place to start, but you segwayed
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me into where I wanted to get
next to seven, pushing that
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clutch in.
It wasn't too many years after
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that that you, I mean, still as
a, as a youthful young person,
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you made another choice that
left the farm, right?
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Yeah, I was 12 years old and I
remember, you know, we were not,
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we didn't have a lot of money.
We didn't have indoor plumbing
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at the time.
This was in the 50s, you know,
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everybody had outdoor plumbing
and we didn't have running water
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in the house.
I, we still had to go out to the
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pump to get water.
We had electricity in the house
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because of rural
electrification.
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So that took care of that part.
So there'd be light bulbs
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hanging around.
But you know, we didn't have a
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lot of those amenities.
You kind of.
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So anyway, you know, us farm
kids that people knew you didn't
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have that till you get on the
school bus.
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You sat in the front because
other kids made fun of you.
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And I think that affected me and
made me just say, you know, I
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don't need this.
I think I I can do some other
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things with my life.
And Sister Ursula at the
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Catholic school is passionate
for sure's to become missionary
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priests.
My eyes got really big.
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I said, holy cow, here's my
chance, right, To do something
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that I think would be really
exciting.
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And so I made the decision to go
to the seminary to be a priest
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at 12 years old.
So I spent four years in the
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seminary at Saint Asians,
Wisconsin, when that was a
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seminary.
And yeah, so the story goes on.
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But that was a major shift in my
life.
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And it was it was scary.
It was scary for my dad because
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for dad, it meant having to sell
a cow every year out of our 13
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cow herd, right?
And he would look at me but
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never say anything when he had
to sell that cow to pay our
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little share of that tuition to
the seminary.
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Wow.
You know, I felt real guilt to
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be, you know, to make the mark,
to be successful.
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You know, it was a heavy, it was
a heavy shift.
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And at 1213 years old, yeah, to
feel that, yeah.
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Yeah.
So man, I have so many questions
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just about that.
You know, it seemed and it's
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part of it as times changing,
right?
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But as a, you know, to have
family support of a 12 year old
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to make that decision, even
though you were feeling that
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guilt, had to be a powerful
driver too at that time, right?
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It was, it was, you know, when
it was my mom, my Irish Carmody
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mom who was the one driving for
me, you know, championing my
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doing it.
You know, my dad wanted me home.
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He needed me on the farm and I I
get that.
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But Mom was the one who helped
me make the make the bridge.
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Yeah, and that's the flip side
of the coin, right?
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How many siblings do you have?
Two brothers who are up on the
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farm.
Indoor county today still it's
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been in the farm since 1890 and
on Sunny Slope Rd.
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Sunny Slope farm just north of
of Carlsville.
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I love it.
Yeah.
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And that's the flip side of the
coin, right?
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That at that time, hands on deck
were needed at the farm.
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That's, you know, you pitch into
the family and and you go, what
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a what a heavy thing.
So what did those four years
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entail?
Did you get out of it what you
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thought, what you thought you
would as a 12 year old moving
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in?
Well, you know, there's a real
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discipline to going into a
seminary.
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Everything you're up at 5:00 in
the morning, you're, you know,
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go to Chapel, Black suit, white
shirt.
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I didn't, you know, we had to
buy things that my family could
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not either afford or had a, a
napkin ring, right?
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I mean, a napkin ring.
And, and I'm like, what the hell
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is a napkin ring?
My mom had to go ask an aunt who
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lived in the city who had a
napkin ring.
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We had to get all that stuff is
part of the list you get of the
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things you have to have to go to
the seminary.
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So it was a real eye opening
shift.
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You know your class of 80 kids
from all over the United States
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in a new place, right?
Living in a dorm with 120 other
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guys, you know, up at 5 in
church by 6, right in class by
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8.
It was, it was that had a rigor
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to it that I wouldn't have
probably gotten if I would have
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stayed home.
And I learned Latin and Greek,
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which ain't bad to know just in
terms of understanding the root
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of things in life.
Right.
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Yeah.
Yeah.
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And then this summer I'd go home
and, you know, pitch in on the
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farm and pick cherries and do
all the stuff a farm boy how to
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do.
Yeah, yeah, transformative
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years.
So then as that wraps up, what
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happens?
Yeah, after those four years, I
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just decided this this wasn't
going to be me, you know, I
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wasn't going to be a priest.
It just wasn't there.
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That wasn't the right thing for
me.
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So I went to Stevens Point and
played hockey and they gave me a
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degree.
They gave you one or your?
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Well, that's not true, but you
know, I helped start the program
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at Stevens Point.
We were the first ones to to get
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that program going at Point in
hockey, which has become a
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really good program.
Hockey program.
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Yeah.
And then after that, I got
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drafted into the during the
Vietnam time and spent 2 1/2
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years in the military and came
back from that and was trying to
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figure out what the hell I was
going to do.
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Right, Like a lot of us as young
people, not quite sure.
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And I learned about this thing
called community organizing.
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And I knew that was the kind of,
I knew I didn't want to be a
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social worker.
My friends kept saying, Tom, you
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got a record for the most
penalties at point.
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You're not going to be a social
worker.
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You got too much edge.
So I heard about this thing
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called community organizing.
And so I went down into Chicago
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and learn from people how you
learn the skills they don't
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teach in school about civic life
and how you can make a
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difference by teaching people
about change and how you can
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make a difference.
And it was driven by a lot of
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faith-based organizations, both
Jewish, Catholic, Muslim, all
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kinds of institutions that came
together to work on things to
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help families improve the
quality of life in cities.
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And I did that for 15 years,
Chicago, Philadelphia, central
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Pennsylvania, organizing after a
big flood in central PA to help
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families keep their homes, blah,
blah, blah.
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So it was it was a real learning
about power and change that I
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will never regret.
I mean, it was.
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So yeah, most people don't get
that chance.
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Yeah.
And we we walk these paths that
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sometimes seem they're written
for us and sometimes they seem
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that we have this autonomy or
choice.
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But, you know, do we or not?
I don't know.
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But I think it's pretty poignant
that you, that you glossed over
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spending 2 1/2 years in Vietnam
and like that amalgam of diverse
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experiences that you had in
those transformative years, I
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think probably led to some of
that efficacy of what you've
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done in your career for the, for
a lot of, in a lot of different
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ways.
And I want to go back and linger
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on that for a second because I'm
not surprised that it happened
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because I like I've had a lot of
conversations with different
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Vietnam Veterans and a lot of
times it is that it's glossing
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over it.
It is, it's not, it's not the
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depth of discussion isn't there.
And I think some of it comes
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from just that, that divisive
scenario in itself.
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And what it was right is that is
that often how it it comes up in
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conversation for you?
Do you think is it something
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that comes and goes?
Well, it's always in the back of
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my head.
I, I'm still, I'm still actively
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involved in farmers and veterans
as a coalition to try and help
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Afghan and Iraqi people coming
back who have a lot of issues
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having dealt with that, which I
won't go into now.
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But it's important to help other
veterans try and get themselves
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back in civic life in a useful
way because no matter where you
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were in the military, you have
some common bond around, you
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know, the importance of mission
in life, whatever that mission
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is at any given time, you
appreciate it.
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So I'm going to share one quick
story because I, I around that
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time.
So after basic training at Fort
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Campbell, actually right here in
Green Bays where I first got to
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ride an airplane in order to go
down to Fort Campbell.
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I mean, I'd never been on a
plane, you know, And Dad drops
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me off and Sturgeon Bay and get
on the bus at 5:00 in the
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morning, hold me down here to
Green Bay, get on my first
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airplane, take me down to Fort
Campbell.
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I get off that airplane and
there's 80 guys standing there
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all.
And that was in the late 60s.
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Long hair beads around their
neck, right?
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Paisley pants.
I mean, this was a motley grue.
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And the guy calls me out the the
drill Sergeant says, muscular,
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muscular, come up here.
And so I stepped up and he said,
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do you play hockey?
I said, yes, I did.
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He said, your captain, right?
I said, yes, Sir.
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Then I'm going to put these
stripes on you.
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And from day one in the
military, I, they put stripes on
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me as a Sergeant and I, and he
said, your first job to prove
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that you're worthy of leading
this group is to take them and
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get their hair cut.
I thought, Oh my God, one thing
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these guys don't want us to have
their head shaved.
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And here I am.
I've got to take them and get
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their head shaved.
And I think about that often
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times of what a significant act
of change that was to lead these
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guys over to get their haircuts.
Then I let them, you know, I was
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their leader in basic training
for, you know, all of basic
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training.
And we won the Leadership Award
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in the battalion 8 weeks in a
row.
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And I can't take any credit for
that, but it said something
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about the culture we created
with our unit.
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We really built a strong
culture.
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And then I went on to military
police school.
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God knows how they chose me for
that, but it was a military
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police Sergeant is what my time
was in the military with 80 guys
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usually that I was responsible
for.
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What an amazing story.
So.
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And do you think it was truly
'cause you just 'cause you had
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played hockey?
I don't they would have looked
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at something more than that
college graduate.
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Probably they they would have
seen that as another
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contributing.
They were looking for people.
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I was a little older.
Most of these guys were right.
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I died out of high school that
were, you know, being drafted.
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I was 23, so I was a little
older.
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I'd been to college.
I had played sports and done a
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lot of things in my life.
So I think there was a
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combination of things that
resulted in that.
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But once you take on that
leadership, it really makes a
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difference in how you view the
world.
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And it affected me ever since.
Absolutely.
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Yeah.
And then you didn't.
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You didn't.
You can't correct that guy for
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saying your name wrong.
No, that's right.
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Second time that jokes come up
and that's actually with a, with
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a person.
I'm excited to connect you with
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another friend of the podcast,
Jake from DC Farm for Vets, very
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similar thing.
So I'm excited for you all to
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have that conversation.
But yeah, I, I just, I like to,
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I always like to dig a little
bit when I get the chance in
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that scenario because obviously
I wasn't around at that time.
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But you hear the stories, you
read the stories and some of the
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places I've got in conversation
with other Vietnam vets, there
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is so much heaviness there that
I think some, and you know, not
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all, you can't stereotype or
whatever, but some feel the need
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to keep it compressed and stuck
inside.
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And I think for a lot of
reasons, same reason I start the
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podcast.
I think some of that stuff needs
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is good to climb out once in a
while.
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Well, I keep contributing.
I mean, I think if you keep
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leaning in and helping others,
you don't spend so much time
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dwelling on whatever experiences
you had.
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Absolutely.
Yeah.
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OK.
So that sets the foundation and
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then how then when you get back
from that experience, what do
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you remember, what the the first
step in the direction of
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community building was like?
How'd you, how'd you land on it?
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How'd you decide it might be for
you and then grow into it?
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Yeah, that's a really good
framing of that.
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I, you know, I came back, I
didn't know what the heck I was
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going to do.
I was, I was up on the farm for
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a few months just trying to help
dad and.
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Regain relationships with
everybody there.
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And I came down here to Green
Bay, to the Job Corps office,
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right?
And the guys interviewing me and
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he says, Gee, would you like to
work here at the Job Corps?
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You'd be really good doing, you
know, placement of people in the
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Job Corps.
And I said, well, that's a
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wonderful awful.
Let me think about it in a
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minute.
And so I walked outside and I
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looked at that building and I
said, shit, I can't see the
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rest.
My next 20 years in this Job
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Corps building.
It's just not me.
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And so I kind of got my courage
up and went back in to tell him,
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you know, I don't think I want
to do this.
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And the phone rang and it was
someone from the University of
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Wisconsin Green Bay who said,
we're starting a new program to
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take students and move them into
communities all across the state
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to work on things that they
could help improve the quality
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of life of people in inner city
Milwaukee up on the reservation
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working the migrant camps.
And I said, I overheard that
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phone call.
And I said to the guy, I want
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that job.
And so he said, oh, man, you
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sure?
I says, yeah, I want to do that.
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And so I went out to UWGB,
walked into the office of the
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guy running it, and I
interviewed.
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And.
And so I spent the next year
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helping get that program started
for students at UWGB to go work
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in communities all across
straight.
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It was a great experience.
And that set me up for wanting
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to do community building work.
Yeah, by the grace of God, Right
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By the grace of God.
Seriously, that's one.
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Yeah.
That's one of those things that
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makes you, well, harkening back
to what I said earlier about,
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you know, do you walk the path
that's there for you or do you
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have this autonomy, something
like that?
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Yeah.
Is so that phone call happens
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when you go back in to tell them
that you don't want.
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I don't want this job.
I don't want this job.
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That's amazing.
That's.
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Amazing, Tom.
Yeah, but you know, when your
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gut, you know, you're old enough
at that time, 2425, you know if
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it's not, if it ain't even close
to right.
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Oh, absolutely right.
Yep.
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Yep, and then sometimes we still
act in the opposite direction
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and then even regret it even
more.
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Exactly after you try.
To force something, yeah, make
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it to happen.
And that often is a that's a
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fruitless attempt at something
that it doesn't help to force.
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OK, so you do a year for that,
you grow these chops.
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And I'm sure there were trials
and tribulations within that,
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but probably what you you grew
or the seeds sprouted of that,
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of what that career could be.
And then what's your next step?
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Well, that's a really good
point.
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And, and I think I learned what
I didn't know right here.
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I am trying to help young people
in college work in places like
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on the, you know, reservation or
in migrant camps.
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And I, I don't pretend that I
know those cultures, right?
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I didn't know how to do that
stuff, right.
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I had some experience,
obviously, in the military.
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You're rubbing up against all
kinds of characters from all
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over the world, you know, But I
just decided I got to, I got to
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learn more.
I got to know more about change.
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I've got to know more about
power.
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And so I heard about people who
do community organizing in
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Chicago and I just went down
there and met with them and, and
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became part of an effort in
Chicago, the Crosstown
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Expressway that all of us drive
now through Chicago at that time
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was being built.
And some planning department
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person had drawn a line and it
went right through all these
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parishes, all these
neighborhoods, They just cut
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them wide open, didn't care
about, you know, anything.
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And we, I learned how to
organize by helping people in
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those neighborhoods organize to
make sure that that was done in
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a way that did not destroy the
ethnic neighborhoods and the
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various communities.
So when you when you drive down
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through Chicago now and you see
some curves and some, you know,
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changes, I can say, Yep, we went
up against the original mayor
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daily to fight for those
neighborhoods to improve.
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Keep that.
And I learned so much by doing
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that, so much about civic life
and the kind of people who will
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stand up and separate themselves
from others and be courageous
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about not letting a large city
just decide what's important for
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residents.
Absolutely.
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Is there Is is your name on one
of those curves?
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That'd be awesome.
No, no.
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Most of us community builder
types, we stay quite quiet
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about, you know, we celebrate in
private, you know?
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Yeah, yeah.
So that first experience down
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there doing that, what, how, how
did, how did you, how did that,
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how was that a way you made
money?
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Was it a non through a nonprofit
organization?
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Or how did, how did that turn
into like, how did you deem that
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a career, you know?
Yeah, that's a good point.
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So there are faith bears,
networks that do community
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00:25:24,120 --> 00:25:27,280
building as part of their
justice commitment, right.
441
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,800
And so the Catholic churches,
Protestant churches have that
442
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:38,800
kind of justice bent to them.
And actually after about 6-8
443
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,200
months in Chicago, they said,
Tom, I think you're ready.
444
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,960
We we've got an opportunity in
Philadelphia where you could go
445
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:49,520
in as a number, what we would
call a #2 to learn, be a novice
446
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,760
organizer.
We're trying to do some
447
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,680
organizing in Philadelphia.
And the churches, the
448
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,200
synagogues, the mosques have all
come together to try and help
449
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,640
make that happen.
And they put up the seed money
450
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,240
to answer your question.
They put up enough money for me
451
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:09,200
to have two years in order to
establish something in that
452
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,080
community.
And so I went to Philadelphia.
453
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:14,400
I'd never been there, you know,
parachuted in there And being,
454
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,800
you know, young, I just said
three years from now we're going
455
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,400
to have a major organization
here in Philadelphia.
456
00:26:21,360 --> 00:26:26,440
I'm like, wow, did you say that?
You know, and, and I wrote it up
457
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:32,080
actually as part of a, a, a
story in a book that not the one
458
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,280
I'm talking about today.
But anyway, yeah.
459
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,800
And, and they said to me, Tom,
we're going to start by
460
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,960
organizing the elderly.
And I thought, oh, no, I don't
461
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,960
want to work with old people.
I'm 24 years old.
462
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:49,600
I don't want to work with old
people and so I ended up
463
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,680
organizing elderly and three
years later we had a network of
464
00:26:53,680 --> 00:27:01,040
270 neighborhood groups, church
based groups that were organized
465
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:05,560
across city, had our founding
convention and there was close
466
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,760
to 2500 people there as
delegates from all the
467
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:13,280
neighborhoods, the communities,
the faith-based and it had
468
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,480
power.
It really could do things.
469
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,400
We could turn out a thousand
1500 people on the drop of a hat
470
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,800
because they loved it.
It was so much fun.
471
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,280
We were the first day, first
ones to get accommodation bars
472
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:31,760
on the city buses so that people
with disabilities could get on
473
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,280
buses.
We had them lower the buses, bus
474
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,400
step by 6 inches, put grab bars
on the buses.
475
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,880
Amazing.
In hindsight, everybody says,
476
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,040
well, that's just part of the
way things are.
477
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,640
They weren't in the 70s They
weren't.
478
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,680
We helped get that started.
Yeah, and that's one of the
479
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,200
poignant stories from the book,
a similar lens of the If I
480
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,600
remember it's.
A quadriplegic, Yes.
481
00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:03,320
Who ended up overcoming all
these obstacles of that to
482
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,760
become a teacher.
But I think the the piece that
483
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,640
sticks in my mind and I think
will for a lot who read the book
484
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:14,360
was the pre cutouts and
sidewalks.
485
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:21,240
Curb cuts and yeah.
Yeah, so pre those or like her
486
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:26,440
experience even with, you know,
she overcome all that, overcame
487
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,480
all those things to become a
teacher and then had the
488
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,800
interview where someone asked
her how are you going to use the
489
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:33,920
bathroom?
Right.
490
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,000
That is gut wrenching.
Isn't it?
491
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:42,120
Yeah.
And I think that's one of the
492
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:46,520
many things that you all did a
great job with of taking down.
493
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,720
That's one of those barriers
that takes, that's one of those
494
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:53,280
things that takes down the
barrier between ideological
495
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,120
difference.
I think you're absolutely right.
496
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,760
Like if that.
If you don't read those words
497
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:04,280
and get moved by empathy for
that person, it's going to be
498
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,880
tough to sway you anyway in any
direction or have any type.
499
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:12,360
But yeah, that's all I So having
recently read the book.
500
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,760
I don't think it recently
matters though, because in
501
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,000
talking with you, that's one of
those stories that like if I
502
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,320
think about an access bar or a
holding bar in a bus, I'm always
503
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,120
going to think of that story.
Well, and part of the lessons in
504
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,880
that story was, you know, I was
young and arrogant and I thought
505
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,040
the first thing we're going to,
one of the things we were going
506
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,440
to take on was getting reduced
fares because the older people
507
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,280
didn't have the money or the
disabled people to even ride the
508
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,120
buses.
I think at that time it was like
509
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,080
$0.35 to ride the bus.
And when your Social Security
510
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:47,880
check was maybe 75 bucks a
month, $0.35 to ride to come to
511
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,480
gatherings or, or just go to
church or go to your
512
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,800
neighborhood center was, you
know, they couldn't afford to go
513
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:58,080
there to get a hot meal.
And so I'm saying, well, let's
514
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:02,280
take on the bus company.
And all these people are looking
515
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,360
at each other saying, where's
this kid from?
516
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,320
Right.
And and they said, Tom, come
517
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,040
down to the corner with us.
So we went down to the corner
518
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,440
and Lillian Holiday, African
American woman, said, watch me
519
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,600
try and get on the bus.
And so Lillian went up.
520
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,640
There's about 10 of us standing
there, and she tries to get on
521
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,280
the bus.
And there's no grab bar.
522
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,960
The step is too high.
She's got arthritic arthritis,
523
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:26,600
and she's trying to get on the
bus.
524
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,880
And this guy driving the bus
glares down with his sunglasses
525
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,400
on and said, you getting on or
you getting off, lady?
526
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:37,120
And he slams the door.
And Lillian says that is what we
527
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,120
got to do first.
We can do this.
528
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:45,120
We can make the buses accessible
and that's what we did 1st.
529
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,680
And once we won that, then they
said, Tom, I think we're ready
530
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,680
to take on the bus company and
see if we can get reduced fares
531
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,840
for older people and disabled.
And we did.
532
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:59,680
And we were able to get half
fares for elderly and disabled
533
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,600
first in the country to be able
to do that.
534
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:07,240
And I did consulting recently in
Philly and I was riding in from
535
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,200
the airport on the on the train
into Reading Terminal downtown.
536
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,960
And the guy taking tickets looks
at me and says, you look like
537
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:19,400
you're older.
And I said, yes, I probably am.
538
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,480
Why are you asking?
He says, 'cause we got this
539
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,320
thing here in Philadelphia where
you can get half price on the
540
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,600
bus.
And this is 35 years or 40 years
541
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,880
ago.
And I'm like, Oh my God, I get
542
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,840
the benefit 40 years later of
having worked on that issue with
543
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,840
these people.
But, you know, those are
544
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:40,080
wonderful stories in life of
people, people stepping up, you
545
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,120
know, and it was not
ideological.
546
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,720
It was not left, right.
It was not polarized.
547
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,800
It was black people, white
people.
548
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:51,440
It was they just needed to be
able to do stuff in the world.
549
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,560
And this was standing in the way
of their having a full life.
550
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,360
Yeah, It took away those front
descriptors.
551
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,800
It's just people.
Yeah.
552
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,320
That's an amazing story, man.
That's an amazing story.
553
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,920
Dan, could you, could you, like,
take a walk around so our key
554
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,200
lights come back on?
Thank you.
555
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,240
We'll let him do this and then I
got the next part.
556
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,880
We doing OK?
Yeah, we're doing great.
557
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,720
Thank you.
Yeah.
558
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:35,400
So I think I don't want to take
it for granted or or take the
559
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,560
just the make the assumption
that community organizing or
560
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,120
community building is is
descriptive enough for people to
561
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,440
know what it is.
So what's your definition of it?
562
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:53,800
Well, you know, this is where my
co-author Pastor Mike and I have
563
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,400
difference.
I believe you scrub off and I I
564
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,960
just speak up that I'm a
community organizer.
565
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:05,920
But Mike, you know, is a non
denominational evangelical
566
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,400
pastor who lives in a small
rural community.
567
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,320
And he said, if you use the word
community organizing here,
568
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:16,120
that'll be a flag word Tom.
And I respect that.
569
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:20,000
If if that's what Mike feels
will stop people from coming
570
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,560
into conversation, you can call
me Tom.
571
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,680
I don't care, right?
My main thing is, is that things
572
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,320
you care about in this world,
whether your kid gets a good
573
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:33,320
education or grandma has a good
nursing facility to live in,
574
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,440
right?
Or you got good feed for your
575
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,160
cattle.
I mean, that's what I care about
576
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,720
and I don't care what you label
it.
577
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:45,360
What I care about is, is that
people know how to actually act
578
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,720
in public life and be effective
with civic life.
579
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,360
Because I think a lot of people
are defeated because they don't
580
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,720
know how to interact or
intersect around things.
581
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,200
They have dreams or discontents
that they want to do something
582
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,600
about.
Absolutely.
583
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,240
Or feel completely powerless.
Feel powerless.
584
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,160
Absolutely powerless.
Yeah.
585
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:07,280
And I think that's a large part
of it, right, is kind of not
586
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,960
delivering that power, but
delivering the prospect.
587
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,280
Yeah, what can I do?
What can I do about that?
588
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,320
Right.
And you know, the word here goes
589
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,760
my Latin, but the word power
comes from the Latin word pose
590
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,880
POSSE.
It means the ability to act, all
591
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:23,560
right.
It's ability.
592
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:28,080
It's a neutral term.
It's not, you know, pejorative
593
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,040
in any way.
It's just neutral.
594
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,880
You got some power.
I got some power, little power.
595
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,080
But if we put it together with a
lot of other folk, we can make a
596
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,960
difference.
We can make change happen that
597
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,560
we care about.
And that that's what I really
598
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:46,239
tried to help people appreciate
and not get caught in our
599
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:51,719
ideological boxes.
And Mike and I, that's part of
600
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,840
why we wrote the book together.
We may have ideological
601
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:59,040
differences, but it doesn't
separate us from working on make
602
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,560
sure the Creek is clean.
So, you know, and that we got a
603
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:06,600
swimming pool in, in his
hometown, right?
604
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,560
Those kind of things so that you
can attract young people back in
605
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,840
the rural communities struggling
to get young people back home.
606
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,440
Yeah, yeah, another great story
from the book with the
607
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,040
childcare.
Ah, yes, yeah.
608
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,680
But that's something we have to
talk to you today.
609
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,400
I'm excited to learn how to.
How did you and Mike come
610
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,880
together?
I think I read somewhere, it
611
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:27,560
might have even been in the book
that you've been friends for
612
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:31,080
quite some time now.
But how does that, how did that
613
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,600
relationship start?
And how do you get to the point
614
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:36,520
where you realize that you're
going to write a book together?
615
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:43,160
Yeah, so I I just wanted being a
rural farm kid, I wanted to take
616
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:47,760
what I knew about organizing,
but to apply it back home here
617
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,440
in my home state.
So after organizing in
618
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:54,280
Philadelphia and cutting my
teeth on some major organizing
619
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,760
in central PA, I got the
opportunity to come back to
620
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:03,360
Wisconsin to organize.
And I wanted to take what I had
621
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:07,400
learned into small towns and
rural areas because that's what
622
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:12,440
I know best.
And so in the 1980s, when the
623
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:16,080
interest rates went way through
the roof and farmers were
624
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:21,080
leaving the land left and right,
I helped start something called
625
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,080
the Wisconsin Rural Development
Center out of Black Earth
626
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,200
Wisconsin.
We were in the basement of the
627
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:32,760
local bank and we worked on
things to help keep farmers on
628
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,920
the land.
We worked on how we can help
629
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:40,640
farmers get reduced cost
mortgages with succession
630
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,760
planning to hand off their farms
to others.
631
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,600
We worked on, you know, way
before people were thinking
632
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,920
about it, the whole idea of
farmers markets as an
633
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:54,160
alternative to kind of commodity
selling a product.
634
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:58,120
And so, you know, every time I
go up to the square in Madison
635
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,800
and there's 20,000 people
walking around, I pinch myself
636
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:06,080
because those kind of markets
have a whole supply chain of
637
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:10,840
people that are in business
because there are alternative
638
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:14,480
markets to putting your cattle
on a in a feed lot, right.
639
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,320
So not that either of them are,
I'm not making pejorative about
640
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,120
which is right.
I'm just saying we need options,
641
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,480
people need options and and we
can provide that.
642
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:28,680
So that was one of the reasons I
ran into Mike.
643
00:37:28,720 --> 00:37:34,080
He was in Richland Center where
he's a pastor and him and I just
644
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,840
hit it off around the things we
agree on, not what we don't
645
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,480
agree on.
We don't spend a lot of time
646
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,000
there.
You know, he wrestled at the UW.
647
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:46,680
So I was naturally attracted to
a guy who's a wrestler and, and
648
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:51,120
I played hockey and then played
rugby and Philly and, you know,
649
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,600
on the East Coast.
And so, you know, we, we know
650
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,320
how to bang around a little bit.
And so Mike and I really hit it
651
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,240
off.
And he, he had a dream for that
652
00:37:59,240 --> 00:38:02,800
community.
And so over 10 years, he built
653
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:07,320
something that I helped support
called Southwest Partners.
654
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:12,160
And Southwest Partners has been
a driving force in Richland
655
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,840
County for change.
And it's made-up of citizens
656
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:18,760
who, you know, got dreams or
discontents they want to do
657
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:24,040
something about and non
ideological, not politically
658
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:27,200
motivated, just we want to have
a homeless shelter here.
659
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,120
We want to do something about
people who are out on, you know,
660
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:34,640
needing a hand up.
So, yeah, so that's how I got to
661
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,600
know Mike.
And we've, you know, we've had
662
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,360
our little pushes and shovings
around when we rub up against a
663
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:43,360
little ideological difference.
But that the one thing Mike and
664
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,240
I are never going to step away
from the table.
665
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,880
I learn a lot by listening to
him and he does hopefully for me
666
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,240
as a result.
And that's what we got to do
667
00:38:52,240 --> 00:38:55,520
more.
If we just cannot continue to
668
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,560
get deeper and deeper in
polarization, absolutely it's
669
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,080
going to kill us all.
Absolutely, yeah.
670
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:05,960
And the bulk of the time, I
mean, I hesitate to say all the
671
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,280
time, but the bulk of the time
it comes from long form
672
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,400
conversation and staying at the
table.
673
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,720
And you know, a lot of the kind
of like when we're the external
674
00:39:15,720 --> 00:39:19,360
or the third party viewing it
one, it's very easy to walk away
675
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,320
from the table.
You turn the TV off, you click
676
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,080
the X on the Internet, whatever
you, you walk away.
677
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,680
But even in conversation with
our friends, our neighbors, our
678
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:33,560
family, that's I think much more
the go to now is we don't go
679
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,280
there.
And if it comes up, we're out.
680
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,800
We walk away.
Once it once it's something that
681
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,840
kind of butts up against what we
think and believe.
682
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:46,640
And I completely agree with you
that that staying at the table
683
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,040
is really important.
Yeah, it's really important.
684
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:50,680
So when does the book come up
then?
685
00:39:50,720 --> 00:39:53,200
Well, first I got to share a
quick story just triggered for
686
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,840
me, which, you know, I'm a big,
I study history a lot.
687
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,880
And so there was a point where
Abraham Lincoln was in the state
688
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:06,120
legislature in Illinois, and he
went in and there was some guy
689
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,560
ranting.
Totally in opposition to
690
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,840
something he cared about.
And he came back to his law
691
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,360
office, to his partner and he
said, I really don't like that
692
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:18,600
guy.
I'm going to have to learn who
693
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:23,520
he is.
I've got to learn his story.
694
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,920
And I have found out over my
many years doing community
695
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:31,200
building work, you got to know
somebody's story before you call
696
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:35,560
him out or you make your choice
to not walk alongside him,
697
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:37,760
right?
Because once you hear people's
698
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,800
stories and you say, well, I can
figure out even I don't agree
699
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,800
necessarily, I can figure out
how he came to where he is.
700
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:49,240
I may not agree with it, but I
at least appreciate where he got
701
00:40:49,240 --> 00:40:52,600
his information, what story in
his life may have led him to
702
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,520
that.
And I'm sorry that happened or
703
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,720
I'm glad that happened.
But if you don't hear other
704
00:40:57,720 --> 00:41:00,840
story, if you're not willing to
sit down and listen to the other
705
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:05,160
person's story, you're not even
giving it a chance to be part of
706
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,440
a community.
Yeah, absolutely.
707
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:12,360
That's so poignant.
I mean, and so you think of
708
00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:16,680
like, I think that happens often
times in conversation where you
709
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:20,560
come to this point where or you
know, even if it's your first
710
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:24,160
impression with somebody else,
you see it and we just
711
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:28,480
immediately put it in the lens
of that person presently in us.
712
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:32,120
But we're all this, we're all
this, you know, a bag of bones
713
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,560
that had all these things that
happened to us up to a point in
714
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:38,520
life that shapes our thoughts,
shapes our opinions, shapes how
715
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,920
we share them.
And without knowing that,
716
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:46,200
without it, it's really easy to
tape it up in a box and say,
717
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,320
well, that's wrong or that's not
what needs to happen.
718
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:56,600
But you know, I, I would say
that there the value, there's
719
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,800
more value in in the story to
get there than the actual
720
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:05,400
opinion, because that's where
you can determine and make aware
721
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,320
even of triggering in somebody's
mind.
722
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:13,960
Like, Oh yeah, you know, this is
something that maybe has me
723
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:17,240
believing something that maybe I
don't need to or I can have a
724
00:42:17,240 --> 00:42:21,600
different lens on what a story.
Yeah, when I'm, you know, when
725
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,000
you're doing community building
work, you're always out there
726
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,600
doing kind of what you're doing
right now, which is you're the
727
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:30,360
one doing the the one-on-one
with someone and you're.
728
00:42:30,720 --> 00:42:33,640
So tell me more about that.
Why did that, How did that
729
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,040
happen?
How did that affect you?
730
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:39,680
How did it affect your family?
My God, that's amazing that you
731
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:43,520
went through that experience.
I can see why you feel the way
732
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,800
you do.
You know, we may have a
733
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,280
different view on that, but I
sure as hell understand it
734
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,800
better when I understand you and
why you are the way you do.
735
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,640
And you still, you care about
wanting to clean up the Creek,
736
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:56,040
right?
Let's go work on it.
737
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,120
Yeah.
Get by it man, get by it.
738
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,160
Yep.
You know what's fascinating
739
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:07,120
about that, Tom, is I had no
idea until reading your book.
740
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:11,640
And I owe you a debt of
gratitude because of that.
741
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:16,640
Because prior to you reaching
out and learning about what you
742
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,000
do, I had, I had a vision of
what I wanted rooted or what I
743
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:26,120
want rooted Wisconsin to be.
But it was, it still is.
744
00:43:26,240 --> 00:43:30,960
It's not obviously probably
never will be complete, but it
745
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,920
was.
So I, I tell everybody, we share
746
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,520
the stories of the people
driving Wisconsin business,
747
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:40,400
community and culture.
I, I created this because I love
748
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,720
our area of the country.
I wanted to shine this positive
749
00:43:42,720 --> 00:43:45,240
spotlight on it.
There are wonderful people on
750
00:43:45,240 --> 00:43:49,920
all sides of the aisle that I
come across and I knew that the
751
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,480
value for me of it is connecting
people.
752
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,960
But I, I never tied it to
outcomes.
753
00:43:58,720 --> 00:44:02,400
I never tied it to the value of
that.
754
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,480
I tied it like I want to connect
people because that's how I love
755
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,320
to feel.
That's how I love to feel.
756
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:12,320
I love having any time you get
into a deeper than surface level
757
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:17,000
conversation with somebody, you
leave that feeling extremely
758
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:20,280
connected and optimistic and
positive.
759
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:24,400
And selfishly, that's why I made
the podcast.
760
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,720
I wanted to feel that way.
I wanted and I, I thought others
761
00:44:27,720 --> 00:44:30,960
did too, but I never connected
it to outcome.
762
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:34,320
So it's, it's funny that that
came up in conversation today
763
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:39,560
because each time I've opened
your book, reading a new story
764
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:43,280
in it or reading the lens of how
it was created, or you do a
765
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,320
great job of kind of toeing the
line between those two things.
766
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:51,080
And I, I had that thought every
time.
767
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:56,880
And it's, it's one of those aha
moments that you, and like, I
768
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,520
mean, we're less than two hours
into conversation.
769
00:45:00,240 --> 00:45:02,680
You have that recognition of
what I was trying to do.
770
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,680
And you would have even before
I, I had it and I didn't.
771
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:10,160
So I, I appreciate your message
that you've shared from more
772
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:14,480
than just the common reasons it
it helps me shape what my vision
773
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,400
is for what we're trying to do.
Well, thank you.
774
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,440
And you know, just getting to
know you, Brett, it's quite
775
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,560
evident that you are a natural
connector.
776
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:25,440
That's that's at the soul of who
you are, right?
777
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:30,040
It is, yeah.
It's and again, that's sure it
778
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,400
comes out probably because we
gravitate towards our strengths
779
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:37,520
and things that we're good at.
And I'm I'm inherently curious
780
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:43,120
about the world and specifically
about people, but when?
781
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,120
When, when we're looking, you
know, when I'm in a community
782
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:50,240
where I'm parachuted in some
place to want to try and find
783
00:45:50,240 --> 00:45:53,520
out what talent is there and
what people care about and doing
784
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:57,200
deep listening, right.
And I'm doing a lot of
785
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,600
one-on-one conversations to be
curious.
786
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,000
I'm usually looking for four
kind of attributes in a leader.
787
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,360
You know, I, I've been in the,
I've been in the private sector
788
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,760
as a vice president of the
company.
789
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:09,800
I've, I've worked in the public
sector.
790
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,760
We're 3 mayors in the city of
Madison, right?
791
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:16,120
I've done those things.
But when I look in community,
792
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,280
what I'm looking for as
community leaders, civic
793
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,040
leaders, citizen leaders, there
are 4 attributes.
794
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,960
And I just want to share those
'cause you mentioned one, which
795
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:30,080
is they're natural connectors.
I'm looking for people who, when
796
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:34,400
I say who else should I talk to,
they go, well, I'm not the one
797
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,160
you should really be talking to.
You should be talking to so and
798
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:42,000
so and so and so and so and so.
They are naturally linked up
799
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,000
like Lily Tomlins with the old
switchboard.
800
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,520
I mean they just, you see them
all over the place.
801
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:51,720
They are natural connectors and
if you can find them, they are
802
00:46:51,720 --> 00:46:54,160
special people.
The second one, you also
803
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,120
mentioned your curiosity.
I look for people who have
804
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:01,880
imagination, right?
Enough imagination to when you
805
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:06,880
you get to that bus stop and you
can't get on the damn bus you
806
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,480
say.
I think we could change this.
807
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,520
I think we can make something
different than what it is.
808
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,080
So you got to have that kind of
imagination.
809
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:18,520
The third attribute I always
look for is they got deep story,
810
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,040
'cause you don't hang in there
on the tough times unless you
811
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,960
got a story that comes out of
your gut, right, or gut story.
812
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,000
And then the fourth thing is you
got to have a sense of humor.
813
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:33,040
You just, you can't do this work
without having a sense of humor,
814
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:34,520
right?
Yeah.
815
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,560
It's just critical because it's
a lot of bumps and bangs.
816
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,320
The world doesn't turn the way
you'd like it every time you,
817
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:47,000
you know, Wade the magic wand.
Yeah, just the the heaviness of
818
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:54,040
the of the work can, you know,
push you away of of not wanting
819
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,000
to feel all that way of the
things that you back to the
820
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:58,120
powerless thing.
Right.
821
00:47:58,240 --> 00:48:02,240
Exactly, exactly.
You raised something up.
822
00:48:02,240 --> 00:48:03,800
I just got to share.
Can I do that?
823
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:07,680
So when I was, you know, that
you asked me about kind of my
824
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,000
genesis story and why this work
is useful.
825
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:15,120
And I think when we talk about
the importance of story, when I
826
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:20,280
was and Mike and I in the book,
we open with the story of how
827
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:25,840
each and each of us came to why
this is important and that
828
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,920
genesis story.
I didn't know Mike's story until
829
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:32,280
10 years ago.
But we both grew up at a time
830
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:36,960
when farmers back in the late
60s, early 70s were getting the
831
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:40,040
heck beat out of them on price.
They just couldn't stay in
832
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,640
business, you know, and my dad,
we were struggling.
833
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,960
We were never political family.
We were never, I never heard
834
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:51,200
Democrat or Republican or
anything in our household.
835
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,160
But I did hear about how the
hell are we going to pay, you
836
00:48:55,160 --> 00:49:01,160
know, the light bill?
And so one Saturday, my dad
837
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:07,680
says, what if we go to this
rally in Brussels?
838
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,080
And I and I said, would you like
to go along, Tommy?
839
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,800
I said, well, it's better than,
you know, shovel and manure,
840
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,760
which is Saturday morning ritual
on the fire.
841
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,200
And I said, yeah, I'd like to do
that.
842
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:23,800
I didn't have a clue.
So we put dad put some milk cans
843
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,720
or milk cans in the back of our
old truck.
844
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:29,680
We went up, picked up our
neighbor Ruben's cans and him,
845
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,120
Ruben.
Dad and I went out to this field
846
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:36,720
in Brussels where there was a
rally being put on by farmers
847
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:40,520
who were trying to get the
prices, get the get the company
848
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:43,440
to the table to talk.
And I got big eyes because,
849
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:46,440
number one, I don't get to go
places that much at that time in
850
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,960
my life.
And here's all these farmers on
851
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:53,280
a kind of like now there's a
March, early April, snow still
852
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:57,600
on the ground just melting.
And these farmers, as part of
853
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,440
that event, started dumping
their cans of milk down into
854
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:05,800
this furrowed, plowed field.
And I watched this milk and dirt
855
00:50:06,720 --> 00:50:10,040
running down as a kid.
I'm like, what the heck, We
856
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:14,160
never spill a cup of milk.
And here we are dumping out.
857
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,000
Something's going on here that
was pretty special.
858
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,920
And then there's a couple
speakers, and they said in two
859
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:24,000
weeks, if we keep this up, we
can get them to the table.
860
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,960
So everybody really think deeply
about hanging in there with us,
861
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,240
right?
And so everybody got back in
862
00:50:31,240 --> 00:50:35,160
their truck, and I went back out
to the road where our truck was
863
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:38,040
standing.
And somebody drove by in a car
864
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:43,680
and rolled down the window and
said, here, you dumb farmers
865
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,680
read this.
And I went over and picked this
866
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:53,280
newspaper out of the snow, and
the car had a Illinois license
867
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,880
plate on because we get a lot of
tourists up in Door County.
868
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,440
But at that time, I really
didn't understand that.
869
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:02,200
But I picked up the paper and I
looked at it and it said
870
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:05,840
something like, Wisconsin
farmers starved Chicago
871
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:12,200
children.
And I'm like, what the hell, you
872
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:13,560
know?
And I looked at my dad, looked
873
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,120
at Ruben, and I held it out to
my dad.
874
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,560
And I said, Dad, are we starving
kids in Chicago?
875
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,800
And Dad just didn't know how to
answer.
876
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,720
And he handed it to Reuben and
he said, Reuben, you explained
877
00:51:23,720 --> 00:51:24,640
this to Tom.
Yeah.
878
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,200
Reuben says, yeah, thanks,
Frank.
879
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:31,400
And so the only thing Reuben
could do in that truck was just
880
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:34,920
put his arm around me and said,
these things are complicated,
881
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:38,880
Tom, and that's it.
But it was a genesis story for
882
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:42,320
me, you know, that was seated
probably that affected my
883
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:47,320
actually going to the seminary
and also affected my choosing
884
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,680
this this work as a as a part of
my life.
885
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:54,440
Yeah.
Thanks for allowing me to share
886
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,520
that, it's just an important
story for me.
887
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,400
Unbelievable story.
It's one that gives you chills
888
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,160
hearing.
And it's funny that you said
889
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:06,000
that because that's exactly what
I'm thinking that that is a core
890
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:10,520
moment of like when you made the
choice as a 12 year old to go to
891
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:15,920
the seminary, That's your way of
like that's what you had access
892
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:19,200
to, to know how you could be
able to help, how you could
893
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,040
help.
You know that that's what had
894
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:24,240
been in your circle and that,
you know, you make that choice
895
00:52:24,240 --> 00:52:26,000
and say, well, that's how I can
help.
896
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,240
You didn't have much choice in
going to Vietnam.
897
00:52:28,240 --> 00:52:30,600
You didn't have any choice in
going to Vietnam being drafted.
898
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:35,520
But then post that you knew you
didn't want to be at the Job
899
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,240
Corps.
But then you hear that phone
900
00:52:37,240 --> 00:52:39,360
call and say, man, that sounds
like a way to help.
901
00:52:40,240 --> 00:52:45,160
And I, I would assume, and you
can, you can tell me if this is
902
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,600
right or way off.
But I would assume that as you
903
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:53,000
navigated your career and grew
as a human and and developed
904
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:59,120
different experiences, I think
probably does it come back to
905
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:03,080
that's one of the core things
that you've you're drawn to,
906
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,720
you're sucked into and and feel
passionate about is just
907
00:53:06,720 --> 00:53:09,160
helping.
Yeah, you know, helping is a
908
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:13,640
useful word, but I think an iron
rule we use in community
909
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:16,680
building is we don't do things
for people they can't learn to
910
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:21,040
do for themselves.
And so the work is less about
911
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:24,920
kind of being a a helper and and
charity.
912
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:29,760
It's not about charity.
It's about you can do this, I
913
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:33,880
can help you learn how to make a
difference in the world and
914
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,760
you've got the gifts to do it if
you want to step up and be part
915
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,520
of it, right?
Am I making sense on that?
916
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,960
So I leave people behind.
I hope better than I found them,
917
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,120
like a good coach.
I always love coaching and I
918
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,360
love you know, So I'm more, I'd
like to think of myself as more
919
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:55,440
of a walk alongside people.
I help them, I coach them, help
920
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,720
them prepare, help them
afterwards learn what happened,
921
00:53:58,720 --> 00:54:02,600
what worked, what didn't right
in events, just like a good
922
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,760
coach did for me.
And I'm grateful for I'm doing
923
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,720
that in civic life.
That's what I want to do to help
924
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,800
rebuild a need for people to get
engaged in civic life.
925
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:20,480
Eloquently put, true and kind of
resemblant of what your partner,
926
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:23,280
your co-author, had said about
if we call this one thing,
927
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:27,040
people won't do it.
And it's funny because one of
928
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:31,080
my, I'm sure my students get
tired of hearing me say it, but
929
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:34,480
I always tell them I'm here to
support your success.
930
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:35,960
Yeah, let me know.
I can do that.
931
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,720
Now that's a lot different than
saying let me know if you need
932
00:54:39,720 --> 00:54:43,040
help.
And it's funny that it came out
933
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:49,720
that way because I I think
that's a that's part that's part
934
00:54:49,720 --> 00:54:55,080
of being an effective connector
that you said earlier is sharing
935
00:54:55,080 --> 00:55:02,280
a message in a way that lands
and that doesn't make someone
936
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:05,880
feel a host of different ways
that could stop you from doing
937
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:11,280
something ashamed, overwhelmed,
whatever you could, you could
938
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:16,040
list words for days that if you
feel them, it it is a a hill on
939
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:20,640
the way to success.
But yeah, that's eloquently put,
940
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:21,520
my friend.
Yeah.
941
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:25,800
Yeah, And you know, I don't make
an offer to people to do
942
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,560
something unless it's in their
interest, right?
943
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:32,080
It's not out of guilt and
obligation because that's not
944
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,440
sustainable.
They're not going to be there
945
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:36,880
for the kind of bumping and
banging you're going to have to
946
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:41,160
do to make change.
But if people got a deep story
947
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:46,000
about something they care deeply
about, then if you want to work
948
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:49,240
together, see if we can't do
something about this, right?
949
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,240
And most people say, yeah, I, I
want to become better.
950
00:55:52,240 --> 00:55:56,600
I want to learn how to do this.
And, and one other thing I want
951
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,800
to add to this is, you know, we
just went through this major
952
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:07,120
election in the Wisconsin, $100
million spent on it, and people
953
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,080
got really rallied around
electoral politics.
954
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,800
And I just want people to
appreciate there's more than
955
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:18,960
electoral politics in the world.
That real civic life, you know,
956
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,880
going back 2000 years to the
Greeks is much more about what
957
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:26,840
you do as a citizen locally to
make a difference in the world.
958
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,760
And we just, we don't, we don't
teach people the importance of
959
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,560
that.
And so, you know, electoral
960
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,120
politics is a necessary thing to
do.
961
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:40,520
It's important, but it's not
sufficient.
962
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:44,920
Sufficient is having the skills
to act in the things that you
963
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:48,600
care deeply about right now,
right here in your place.
964
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,920
And isn't that reflective of
your original point, the point
965
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:59,680
we were just on, it's reflective
of if you're pushed to do
966
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:05,360
something, it's not sustainable.
That's what governmental policy
967
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,600
and pressure is it.
It is constraining.
968
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:10,600
It puts things in boxes, which
we need.
969
00:57:11,240 --> 00:57:17,280
At the same time, that isn't
sustainable change at a human
970
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:22,440
level, at A at a human community
level.
971
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:24,240
At that scale.
Yeah.
972
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:28,520
So like when you think of, you
know, the most constraining
973
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:33,400
authoritative regimes in the
world, looking at it from the
974
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:35,480
outside in, we're like, how do
those people live?
975
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,600
How are they, how do they
continue on?
976
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,760
They're doing something at a
community level that makes life
977
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:44,960
at the bare minimum worth
living.
978
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:53,520
But past that, and I think the
the polarization I think jams
979
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:55,880
people in this place of, well,
we have to wait to see what
980
00:57:55,880 --> 00:58:02,560
we're told to do until we do it.
But it's it's not going to, it's
981
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:03,720
not going to bring the
connection.
982
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:04,840
It's not going to bring the
success.
983
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,880
It's not going to bring it.
It is at a truly, I mean,
984
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,880
grassroots is an overused term,
but it's at an individual level.
985
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:16,080
And then what you do for your
community can create some sweat.
986
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:21,600
You identifiably smaller changes
that can then blossom into more
987
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,600
connection.
Yep, absolutely, absolutely.
988
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:28,560
As your confidence grows and
your ability to engage people
989
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:31,920
grow, you can take on bigger
dreams, right?
990
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:35,120
Or bigger discontents?
Absolutely.
991
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:42,920
And the dreams become realistic.
Yeah, I I had the good fortune.
992
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:44,280
I don't know if it's good
fortune.
993
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,680
Yeah, I'd say it was good
fortune of working in other
994
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:51,760
countries, being invited to
other places, like in Argentina
995
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:55,680
after the disappearance of
families, where 20,000 people
996
00:58:55,680 --> 00:59:00,240
were disappeared.
And I was brought down there by
997
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,720
family members about five years
after all of that.
998
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:07,760
But it was still raw to try and
get people back engaged in civic
999
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:11,720
life when they had learned to
just hide, hide, put your helmet
1000
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:16,080
on, cinch it up, stay low, don't
go in public, drive fear into
1001
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,000
society.
And I came down there at the
1002
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,000
will of the families.
And the first thing they showed
1003
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:24,160
me when I got there was they
took me to a football stadium
1004
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:28,200
where a lot of their family
members had been buried under
1005
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:32,640
the football soccer stadium.
And, you know, I was like, I
1006
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,960
couldn't believe it.
And then, you know, a lot of
1007
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:39,000
more hauled out over the
Atlantic Ocean and dropped,
1008
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:41,280
right.
And these were you talk about
1009
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:46,160
people with story who had the
courage to want to stand up and
1010
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:52,280
reinvent democracy in that city
and, and in that society.
1011
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,440
And it was powerful work.
And we made a big difference,
1012
00:59:56,960 --> 01:00:00,240
you know, And I thought I was
just a, you know, a small stone
1013
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:03,160
in a big pond.
But I felt really proud that I
1014
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:07,680
had the chance to help them
learn some things that continue
1015
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:10,120
to this day.
And I could share other stories
1016
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:14,040
of places I've been doing that.
And that's nonpartisan work.
1017
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:18,440
It's just caring about people
and their families and
1018
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:22,160
communities.
Yeah, how, how much of that have
1019
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:25,040
you done like outside of the
country?
1020
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:30,560
Type stuff like some, some, some
Eastern Europe stuff, you know,
1021
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:34,920
in places I remember this is
even more interesting, at least
1022
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:36,720
to me.
I was in Portugal.
1023
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,400
I was talking about this, and I
had an interpreter.
1024
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:44,840
And I could tell from the view
of the people there that what I
1025
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,680
was sharing, when I was talking
about building strong
1026
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,560
communities from the bottom up
where you get local people
1027
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:54,480
engaged, I was getting kind of
this kind of gloss over.
1028
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:58,280
And I finally said, you know, to
the interpreter, what?
1029
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,720
What do you think's going on?
And they said, yeah, there's a
1030
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,560
name for people like you.
They called you subversives.
1031
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,960
And I thought, Oh my God, isn't
that interesting that people are
1032
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:12,880
fearful and that we get boxed up
when in fact, we're, you know,
1033
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:16,480
we are not subversive.
We are just ordinary people
1034
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:19,520
listening to what people's
dreams and discontents are that
1035
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:24,880
we want to act on, Right.
And yet that that's what can go
1036
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:28,640
on as fear gets driven into a
culture, That's what goes on.
1037
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:31,480
We learn.
We are very smart at learning
1038
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:36,960
how to read the signals and to
avoid being drawn into things
1039
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:40,800
that are unsafe, right For us
and our families, You, me,
1040
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:45,480
anybody else.
And so, yeah, that's the real
1041
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,080
world.
That's the real world.
1042
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,920
That is fascinating.
So in that moment, they have a
1043
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,400
million things to say, but
they're they won't say.
1044
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:58,000
What they won't say it.
Because they've been ingrained
1045
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:02,400
that that is somebody fishing
for something that Yep.
1046
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:05,640
Is dangerous and I experienced
that even working for the city
1047
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,440
of Madison.
My job was to improve.
1048
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:10,760
So I'm a 2 trick pony.
One is community organizing,
1049
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,920
community building right?
And the other half, I became
1050
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:17,760
institutionalized both as vice
president of the company and
1051
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:21,240
also I worked for three mayors
not in a political position.
1052
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:23,280
My job was to improve everything
we did.
1053
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:27,000
So I rode with refuse pickers to
try and reduce back injuries.
1054
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:30,160
What would police officers to
get them out of their cars,
1055
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:32,440
Learning how to walk in the
neighborhood and meet the
1056
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:36,280
neighbors rather than sitting in
a car getting fire trucks to
1057
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:39,880
fires faster.
That was my my kind of work,
1058
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,680
right?
And but I learned from that,
1059
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:45,640
that I'd go down to motor
equipment to spend the day
1060
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,480
working with the guys.
And I'd say, what kind of day is
1061
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,360
it?
It's the best day of my life.
1062
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:53,200
I love it here.
I only got 25 years left.
1063
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:58,760
That's the culture, right?
And to get a relationship with
1064
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:02,600
those guys so that they would
say, I'd say, So what can we do
1065
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:04,360
to make it better for you to
work here?
1066
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,920
Change.
Well, Tom, you can get the damn
1067
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:11,200
windows cleared here so we can
actually see in the vehicle, so
1068
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:14,000
we can, you know, see what parts
are needed.
1069
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:17,360
I said when was the windows?
Was the last time the windows?
1070
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:22,840
Is this plane been clean?
Probably 10 years, 24 hours had
1071
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:26,000
those windows cleaned.
Then when I sat down to him and
1072
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:30,040
said what else do you want done?
And they'd say we can't get
1073
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:33,080
parts.
Takes 27 days to get a part.
1074
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,320
But they're blaming us 'cause
we're the mechanics.
1075
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,920
And so we flow charted the
process for buying parts. 27
1076
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:44,920
steps to buy a part, right?
And the mechanic only has two.
1077
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:48,080
He could make the order in the
front and he could put it in at
1078
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,880
the end.
But 27 steps right, Including a
1079
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:55,960
rule that if it was over
$300.00, it had to go up to the
1080
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,320
comptroller's office to sign off
on it.
1081
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:02,360
To make it 28.
To me, you know, I mean, so I'm,
1082
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:03,960
I'm, I'm getting off a little
bit.
1083
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:06,520
The change, what I've learned
about change, whether you're
1084
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:10,720
inside an organization or in
community, the importance of
1085
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:14,880
feeling that you can affect
change and learning that should
1086
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:18,520
be part of what people learn in
this society if we're serious
1087
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:23,000
about democracy and letting
everybody have a chance to have
1088
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:24,960
a voice.
Absolutely.
1089
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,480
Yeah.
And isn't that concept isn't
1090
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:30,200
that helpful, that quick
feedback loop at the beginning
1091
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:32,840
to get people a little bit of
gusto moving in the right
1092
01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:34,960
direction, that little momentum,
you know, you start with a
1093
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:37,560
little snowball.
And it's like, I guarantee those
1094
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,080
mechanics in there, they see
that happen in 48 hours.
1095
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:42,240
They're like, oh, Dang, I can
see my parts.
1096
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:45,560
Next time Tom comes around
having a conversation, those
1097
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,680
ears are going to be a little
bit more perked up for.
1098
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:50,320
You.
Yep, exactly, exactly.
1099
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:56,800
And and when one of the lead
people there passed away, all
1100
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:59,200
the mechanics were Harley
riders, right?
1101
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:03,840
They went up to his hometown
Douglas Grave, and he was the
1102
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:07,400
guy who actually led the stuff
that the change strategies.
1103
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:12,760
So for them, it was more than it
was an opportunity to actually
1104
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:15,520
say the things they couldn't
say, right.
1105
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:19,320
I was giving them permission to
say, you know, this ain't right.
1106
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:24,000
We, we can, we can suck it up.
We can get by because we got
1107
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,960
good pay and good benefits.
But this ain't right.
1108
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:31,720
We could be better mechanics if
we did this and this and this
1109
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:35,120
and we open that up.
And once we open that up, now
1110
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:38,200
the fear for politicians is
they're going to be asking for
1111
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:41,560
things that, you know, but it's
for the betterment.
1112
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:45,600
We saved a lot of money by
improving the part systems down
1113
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:47,600
to three steps, 24 hour turn
around.
1114
01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:51,320
You got it down to three.
Three steps from 27 steps turn
1115
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:56,760
around time went from 27 days
first to 48 hours and then it
1116
01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:00,880
went down to 24 hours.
And they're the ones who chose
1117
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:03,280
to change it.
They were thinking after I left
1118
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:07,360
working with them to move it
from 48 to 24, they they
1119
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:11,680
improved another thing that made
the difference so that that kind
1120
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:16,480
of stuff it really get well.
It makes me want to do a podcast
1121
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:16,880
with you.
You're.
1122
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,640
Right, Yeah, yeah.
And I'm glad we got there
1123
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:24,360
because I, you know, I don't
enter these knowing everywhere I
1124
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:25,800
want to go.
I enter these to have a
1125
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,400
conversation.
But from talking on the phone, I
1126
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,480
remember you talking.
That job sounds really
1127
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:34,800
interesting to me.
And in that scenario
1128
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:37,480
specifically, I think you can
pull out this bigger concept
1129
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:39,640
that has to be a good feeling
that you've had throughout your
1130
01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:44,400
career of like anytime change
comes around, there's a certain
1131
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,800
percentage of people that are
these immediate detractors,
1132
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:48,160
right?
Like this is a bad idea.
1133
01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:49,560
We don't want change.
We don't want it.
1134
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:55,120
And then when you can leave a
scenario that effectively and
1135
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:59,240
successfully and like clearly
from 28 to three, there was a
1136
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:01,040
lot of unnecessary things
happening there.
1137
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:04,800
And when you can leave a
scenario and it's not to say
1138
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:08,200
like it's not to do the rub in
your face, like I told you that
1139
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:09,960
you shouldn't be, you shouldn't
be glad I was here.
1140
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:13,080
It's no, it's not that.
It's like there has to be so
1141
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:18,080
much satisfaction in that.
Like getting over that
1142
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,600
perception of like, OK, let's
push past this.
1143
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:23,520
I'm here to support you, let's
do what's best for you.
1144
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:28,120
And then removing that, what
whatever you want to call it,
1145
01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:29,880
there's a bunch of proverbial
things you could say.
1146
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,320
Removing the wall in front of
somebody so they can keep
1147
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:37,680
walking forward.
That job had to have so much of
1148
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:38,680
that.
Well, it did.
1149
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:40,560
It did.
And I fund.
1150
01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:44,280
One of my rules of thumb is that
95% of people go to work every
1151
01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:49,120
day, want to do great work.
They may work in shitty systems
1152
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:51,920
that make it really hard to do
great work.
1153
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:56,080
So let's work on the system
first rather than blaming Harry
1154
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:59,800
that it's his problem or Jane
because she's, you know, not as
1155
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:02,480
fast as I am at doing things
right.
1156
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:07,440
Work on the systems that make it
bad for hard for people to do
1157
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:09,560
what they do.
And I bet there's a lot of
1158
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:11,960
people out there listening who
listen to your podcasts could
1159
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:15,200
say thumbs up on that because I
got a whole lot of stuff in my
1160
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:19,800
job on this molding machine or,
you know, packing sausages that
1161
01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:22,760
I know could be done better.
But it's not a place where I can
1162
01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:26,359
say what I think could be done,
because it's not a culture that
1163
01:08:26,359 --> 01:08:29,120
would support that.
What can that person do, Tom?
1164
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:33,200
That's a great question.
That's a really good question.
1165
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:37,560
Unless, you know, it's really
hard when you're in those
1166
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:39,840
systems.
I'll tell you, you, you, you
1167
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:41,880
know, it's kind of the old Kenny
Rogers.
1168
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,399
You know, when to hold them,
when to fold them, when to walk
1169
01:08:44,399 --> 01:08:45,920
away.
You got to make those calls in
1170
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:48,120
your life.
You know, you may have reasons.
1171
01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:51,359
You're going to just suck it up
and you're going to keep leaning
1172
01:08:51,359 --> 01:08:54,399
in on that job because that's
the job in town.
1173
01:08:54,399 --> 01:08:57,279
And that's what you can do, and
you do it well to the best of
1174
01:08:57,279 --> 01:08:59,680
your ability.
But there are others who say,
1175
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:02,680
no, this is enough of this.
I want to go someplace where
1176
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:05,560
they treat you right.
You get to have some voice,
1177
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:08,120
right?
And I can make a difference.
1178
01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:11,399
So all of us have to make those
calls in our lives, and I've
1179
01:09:11,399 --> 01:09:13,439
made them.
You've made them right.
1180
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,240
We all do those things.
Yeah.
1181
01:09:15,399 --> 01:09:19,120
Yeah, I think that's such an
important identification because
1182
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:24,640
the like the easy answer would
have been to say, well, read
1183
01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:30,279
this book and then do this.
But the the important delineator
1184
01:09:30,279 --> 01:09:34,279
there I think it is.
And the the Kenny Rogers thing
1185
01:09:34,279 --> 01:09:38,120
is a is a really good tangible,
easy to understand example of
1186
01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:41,319
that of like there's certain
things that are going to be in
1187
01:09:41,319 --> 01:09:43,720
in certain scenarios outside of
your control.
1188
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:47,200
So not only having all these
skills, knowing when to
1189
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:50,359
implement them and when it's
good and when you can do it.
1190
01:09:50,359 --> 01:09:57,200
Now, I would, I would venture to
say that with enough curiosity,
1191
01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:02,200
time and attention, even in
those scenarios I've seen, you
1192
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:09,320
know, organizations not
operating effectively,
1193
01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:13,080
successfully, I've seen them
change from the, from the ground
1194
01:10:13,080 --> 01:10:18,560
up with a similar, you know,
mindset, but or you know, a
1195
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:22,040
similar plan of action.
And it might not be, you know,
1196
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:25,000
don't stand up from your machine
and start hollering.
1197
01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:28,240
This is everything that's wrong.
But take some of these concepts
1198
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:32,200
in, maybe maybe get a few people
together, you know, that say,
1199
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:35,760
hey, this could be a little bit
better and, and start leaving
1200
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:39,680
those little notes on the walls.
And I think in a lot of
1201
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:43,080
scenarios you could make it
bigger, better if you want to.
1202
01:10:43,440 --> 01:10:46,200
That's a whole other thing.
Like you said, some people are
1203
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:49,600
locked in where like if the if
that's the spot to work in your
1204
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:52,400
small rural community town,
let's try to make a change in
1205
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:55,240
there.
If you're in Green Bay and every
1206
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:58,280
manufacturer here is looking for
a person to come work and you're
1207
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,320
working at 1:00 and you're
thinking, man, this could be a
1208
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:03,480
little bit better.
Maybe just jump ship you know
1209
01:11:03,480 --> 01:11:05,880
and and see.
Yeah.
1210
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:10,080
And I this might be a good time
to just share the framework that
1211
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:12,560
the book is written around, if I
could.
1212
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:16,240
Yes, please, because I think
that's key after all these years
1213
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:20,360
of being around change and the
book is around the basic
1214
01:11:20,360 --> 01:11:27,320
framework is around community
change is based on what I think
1215
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:31,440
are four things that have to you
have to think about when you're
1216
01:11:31,440 --> 01:11:34,920
going to try and create change,
whether it's inside of a place
1217
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:38,440
or from a community, you know,
as a citizen.
1218
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,200
And the first thing is you got
to assess the desire.
1219
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,520
You may have a great idea, you
may have something you really
1220
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:49,080
got to dream to make happen, but
you got to know if there's other
1221
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:52,320
people who have that dream or
not, because you could be one
1222
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:54,720
guy in a bar stool, you know,
with a dream.
1223
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:57,480
There's a lot of them down there
at the tap room, right?
1224
01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:01,240
But unless you can get other
people, so you got to go out and
1225
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:04,480
assess whether or not there's
enough will to make that happen.
1226
01:12:05,480 --> 01:12:09,680
So that's number one desire.
And then secondly, that's got to
1227
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,680
be combined with.
So I would say to you, So what
1228
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:15,600
would you like to see happen?
And then you'd have to be able
1229
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:18,560
to share with me some kind of a
vision of what the hell it would
1230
01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:20,600
look like if we actually made
the change.
1231
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:24,040
Because if you can't figure that
out, even if it's rough, a rough
1232
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:26,280
sketch, you got to have some
idea.
1233
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:28,480
You know, it's like that bus
store I said.
1234
01:12:28,480 --> 01:12:31,480
And what would it look like if
you could get on this bus,
1235
01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:32,600
Lillian?
Right.
1236
01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,040
Well, the step might be a little
lower.
1237
01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:38,000
The there'd be something I could
hold on to when I'm going to get
1238
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:39,280
on.
Right.
1239
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,240
OK, let's figure out how we're
going to make that happen.
1240
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:46,680
So does understand the will or
the desire to make it happen
1241
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:50,880
times The ability to create a
vision and not just alone, but a
1242
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:53,280
shared vision.
More people involved in the
1243
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:55,760
vision creation.
So you got some power coming.
1244
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:59,120
Third element is power.
How much power do you got to do
1245
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:01,280
something about this?
You know, down in
1246
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:04,560
Blanchardville, where I farm
South of Madison, every
1247
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,440
Wednesday afternoon, the euchre
boys are down at the tap room
1248
01:13:07,440 --> 01:13:09,120
and they're solving all the
world's problems.
1249
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:12,360
So I don't worry about doge.
I don't worry about any, you
1250
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:15,440
know, tariffs.
Those guys got it nailed every
1251
01:13:15,440 --> 01:13:19,360
Wednesday afternoon, but they
don't get off of the bar stool
1252
01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:22,680
or are at the card table, right?
That's that's it.
1253
01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:26,280
So where do you going to get the
power you're going to need to
1254
01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:29,680
actually make the change?
And I say there are two things
1255
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:32,840
that we talked about in the book
that really make change from the
1256
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:36,320
bottom up. 1 is the strength of
your relationships, those
1257
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:41,560
networks, how deep and broad are
the relationships that you can
1258
01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:43,560
bring together to effect the
change?
1259
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,360
And are you willing to actually
get out of the upper room and do
1260
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:48,880
something?
A lot of people are good up till
1261
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:50,800
then.
They know there's people who
1262
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:53,080
care about this thing, whatever
it might be.
1263
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:55,320
They got a vision of what could
be.
1264
01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:58,880
They got a, you know, picture in
their brain or a group of people
1265
01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:00,920
do.
And they think they may have a
1266
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:05,360
little power because they got
networks and relationships, but
1267
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:07,480
they're never going to get out
of the upper room and act.
1268
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:10,880
And it takes those four things
together.
1269
01:14:11,560 --> 01:14:14,560
And those got to be stronger
than the resistance because I
1270
01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:18,400
don't care how good you think,
whatever it is you want to do,
1271
01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:23,080
you're going to be surprised by
some people say not here, we're
1272
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:25,400
not going to do that.
You're not you thinking about
1273
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:28,160
doing that here.
We're not going to buy that.
1274
01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:31,360
We don't work that way here.
So you got to get ready for the
1275
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:34,200
resistance.
And I'd rather anticipate it and
1276
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:37,000
help people anticipate it then
react to it.
1277
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:39,920
So that's the framework that the
book is built on.
1278
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:45,000
And each story is a story, as
you know, related to each one of
1279
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:49,760
those elements.
And if you're in in, in Denmark
1280
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:53,720
or Kewanee or Pulaski or
wherever you're from, this
1281
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:56,520
little framework can really help
you think about something you
1282
01:14:56,520 --> 01:15:00,800
want to do and say, OK, do we
have a deep enough will here to
1283
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:05,400
actually do this right?
And do we have a vision of what
1284
01:15:05,400 --> 01:15:07,560
we want it to look like if we do
it?
1285
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,760
And where's our power going to
come from to make it happen?
1286
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:12,760
Relationships and willingness to
act.
1287
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:15,200
And where was the resistance
going to come from?
1288
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:16,960
That's it.
It's that simple.
1289
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:21,640
It's never that easy, right?
But it's that simple to actually
1290
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:24,880
create that kind of.
And I want that for ordinary
1291
01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:28,360
people to make a difference.
That helped me a lot.
1292
01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:32,160
The I algebraically isn't how my
mind works.
1293
01:15:32,480 --> 01:15:35,480
So like seeing the I kept trying
to like go back and forth
1294
01:15:35,480 --> 01:15:38,400
between the concepts and then
the equations in the book.
1295
01:15:38,400 --> 01:15:39,760
You sound like my wife.
Yeah.
1296
01:15:39,760 --> 01:15:42,200
I just want the stories.
I just want the stories.
1297
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:44,280
Inherently, that's where I am,
that's where I am, that's where
1298
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:46,880
my mind lives.
But what a what an excellent
1299
01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:49,240
cherry on top of the sundae
we've put together today.
1300
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:55,400
Tom I, I had the, the way I
became aware of those push backs
1301
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:58,040
was living in a small Upper
Peninsula community for seven
1302
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:02,600
years and moving in from, you
know, having lived some other
1303
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:07,080
experiences in my life and
having ideas that were like,
1304
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:09,200
this would be awesome.
This would be a really cool idea
1305
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:12,120
for the community.
And then, you know, whether it
1306
01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:14,280
was I was on a radio show
talking with somebody about
1307
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:17,480
wanted a, you know, forward
thinking person who wanted to do
1308
01:16:17,480 --> 01:16:21,720
this or whatever, and then just
to see the other side come up
1309
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:23,120
and be like, we don't want that
here.
1310
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:26,240
One of my one of my great
friends is a a fly fishing guide
1311
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:28,240
in that town.
Still, he's built an
1312
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:30,480
unbelievable business doing it
there.
1313
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:36,160
But at the beginning, a a town
that, like most in the UP do are
1314
01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:40,880
struggling economically, the
shrinking, dwindling tax bases
1315
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:44,800
being harmful to the education
system, that isn't creating a
1316
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:49,400
good environment there.
And the my friend is a is a
1317
01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:51,760
very, he's a dynamic change
maker.
1318
01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:55,240
You know, he, he's one of these
people and just another
1319
01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:56,760
excellent thing that could be
for the community.
1320
01:16:56,760 --> 01:17:00,960
And so he got so much pushback
at the beginning from fishermen
1321
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:05,040
that didn't want him on the
creeks bringing people there.
1322
01:17:05,480 --> 01:17:08,280
And that was something so far of
like, I'm an outdoorsman.
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I like fishing and hunting, but
it was something so far from
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where mine my mind was at
thinking about what he was
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trying to do.
And ironically, he's a pastor as
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well.
So like, you know, it's just
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funny how we come to learn those
things.
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But what a what a fantastic
cherry on top of.
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It's my privilege to be here
with you.
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Thank you.
I would push back a little bit
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on that.
I think the privilege was mine
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too.
So appreciate your time, Tom.
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Thank you very much.