Amanda Miceli - BOLD Marketing, Authenticity, Creative Art, and Dennis Rodman - Ep. #45
Amanda Miceli is an entrepreneur, creative, fashion designer, marketer, and speaker, on a personal mission to inspire and assist people in being their most authentic selves. The founder and CEO of the BOLD Marketing Agency, Amanda has not only built an incredible brand for herself, she does it for others as well. In this episode, Amanda and Brad discuss marketing and the importance (and definition) of a BRAND and how she builds them so well, creativity and art, fashion design, being an entrepreneur, her Dennis Rodman tattoo, and MUCH more!https://www.theboldmarketingagency.com/As always a HUGE shoutout to our sponsors at Forward Beverage and Riverside Pizza. They keep these coming. If you dig it, make sure to support them!https://riverside-pizzeria.com/ https://www.forwardbev.com/
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Amanda Maselli is our guest
today, founder owner of the Bold
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marketing agency in Green Bay
and I caught interest in her
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stuff because of her ability to
grow her own brand.
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Unbelievable job she's done and
and is doing so super fun
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conversation.
We talk about her Dennis Rodman
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tattoo.
We talk about how to build an
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authentic brand and be bold in
your marketing strategies and
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really just authenticity
throughout life and using that
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to build brands and awareness
and create community and
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connection with people.
So super excited to share the
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episode.
We talked about marketing, we
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talked about music, we talked
about her Dennis Rodman tattoo
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again and much, much more.
Really excited to share it with
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you.
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Here it is.
Amanda Maselli.
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So have the ways we try to lift
our neighbors.
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Where did the love go?
Where did the talk end?
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We need to help to make this.
I have been very impressed with
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your ability to build your
brand.
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Thank.
You.
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It is.
It is super effective, it's
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super authentic.
And those two things in
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marketing don't always, they
don't happen by happenstance,
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you know what I mean?
Like you have to put a lot of
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work, a lot of people do one of
those things well or the other
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thing very well, but not a lot
of people can combine those two
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things.
And that is what initially drew
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me in to your content and then I
had a chance to come to a cool
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event that you put.
Together that we'll we'll.
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Talk about a little bit later,
but first I just want to, I want
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to hear it what, what are your
thoughts around branding and how
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do you how do you do it so well?
Oh, I love it.
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So branding is always been my
number one thing that I've loved
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most, especially within the
business.
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And it's actually, it's a great
question to start it off with
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because I, we hosted our own
branding seminar actually like 2
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weeks ago.
And it was a fun time for me to
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have my own reflection because I
taught all these people and was,
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you know, sharing all these
things of what is all of this
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that goes into a brand and how
much more.
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Like my number one question I
love to ask people is what is a
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brand like?
What is a brand to you?
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Like what's the first thing you
think of?
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Brand to me is like is like that
unspoken, sometimes spoken
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promise or expectation level to
a consumer, like they to lower
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the barrier to know that this is
what they expect from you
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because you are ABC.
That's a brand to me.
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Yeah.
And it's so fun to hear such
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array of answers that people
give.
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And a lot of the time it's like
logo and colors and fonts and a
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lot more of the visual identity,
which is that piece.
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But it's so much more than that.
And people don't realize how to
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keep that consistent.
And for me, the branding has
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always just felt very natural
because for myself, like where I
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realized is my home, like my
sweet spot 2 for it is personal
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branding because I like my
personal mission in life is just
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to continue to support people
and inspire people to be their
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most authentic self.
And through people just
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genuinely being themselves and
we take them as a human being of
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who are they psychologically on
every level and get to know
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them.
And then my creativity can come
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to life by making their
personality into a brand is is
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where I know like my superpower
is to be able to have that.
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And there's something about just
understanding the psychology
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behind it that helps me
translate it into being able to
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have that.
And then how do we consistently
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have this across the board and
having it be that number one
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thing, like consistency being
that key and how I can help
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people do that everywhere.
And like show up of, you know,
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there's people that come to me
and are like, well, randomly
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text me and send me pictures of
red things because I've
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instilled red in their brains so
hard.
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And they'll be like, here's a
pair of red shoes.
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I thought of you and it's so
cute, but it's like my one
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friend, what do I say?
You're always on brand.
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Like literally you're always on
brand.
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Oh, your, your shoes, they're on
brand and it's just showing up
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as all the time, like I and just
being that authentic version of
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you.
And I love when I can help other
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people be that as well.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
And I think that, I mean, why
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it's not just the logo, why it's
not just the, the building, why
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it's not just the visual things
is that takes away the most
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important pieces of the brand in
a lot of aspects, which is like,
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you're, I mean, you've done a
great job just incorporating the
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word bold into what you do.
But it's those descriptive words
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like, you know, if I, I think of
a, my personal brand per SE,
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like I want people to know that
I'm going to be authentic.
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I want people to know that I'm
going to be engaged.
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I want them to know I'm going to
be curious.
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A logo is not curious.
A logo isn't engaged but a brand
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is, and I think like looking at
it from an external lens of
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someone who owned a marketing
agency too.
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I think if I'm a business
looking for something and I come
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across yours, I know exactly
what I'm gonna get before I even
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talk with you, right?
Which is exactly the point.
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It's like, how can we say what
our values are, what we believe
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in?
Like I read my team and I, we
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read books together every
quarter.
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And the first one that we ever
read was a book called Stand for
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Something by Brian Burghart.
And it was just this idea of
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like, why do we lead with what
we do?
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You know, Oh, I own a marketing.
Oh, yeah.
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Oh, I, oh, I run a podcast.
Well, if we start with what we
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believe in and we shout it from
the rooftops, then it
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automatically attracts those
people that you want.
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Like I love to put in the
perspective of dating, like when
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you're, if you were putting
together a list of what are your
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absolute musts when you're
looking for somebody and what
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are the things that are you got
this.
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It's a no, you know, it's the
same concept.
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It's like, OK, what do we value?
What what do we believe in and
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what are all those things?
And how can we shell that from
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the rooftops?
Because then people are
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automatically going to, Oh, I
align with that.
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I also value those things.
Oh, you put that first.
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OK.
I wanna join your train.
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I wanna be along that ride.
Yeah, Yeah.
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What are those things for you as
a marketer?
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What?
Are those things we scream from
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the rooftops?
Overall, you've said it now a
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few times for us is authenticity
just we, you know, I set it at
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the event that you attended to
of just like we always try and
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make like we make life
complicated.
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We're all just human beings and
doing this thing called life.
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Like when you really just think
about every little detail of
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life, it's like, how does half
this shit exist, you know?
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But everyone created something
like this chair was creative.
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The microphone, like so many
people think that just because
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you don't paint or actually put
in like that visual sense, it's
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not creative.
And it's so celebrating that
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creativity and that authenticity
of that everyone is just, if
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we're all just doing our thing
and we all can learn from each
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other is huge.
So the curiosity as well of just
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continuing to, you know, except
that we're not all going to
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agree.
Like, I don't believe that we
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should all agree, but it's that
I can sit down with anyone and
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have a conversation and we're
not yelling at each other.
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You know, we're not defensive.
It's opening that space to just
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ask questions.
Like why?
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Why am I being shunned for
asking a question?
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I don't know the perspective.
Like you're very different from
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me, whoever it might be.
How can I learn from all the
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things that have you gone
through in your life?
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Like you think the way that you
do because you've been through
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such a different reality.
And where does that come from?
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Like that's where I come from in
that space.
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And I surround myself with other
people who equally have that
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space of like, we can have any
conversation with anyone about
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any anything.
And it's not this, Oh, we have
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to argue or oh, as soon as I say
something you don't agree with,
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I'm leaving the conversation.
You know, so very much out of a
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space with that and just having
grace that like there's in back
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to the human being.
But like, especially with
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working with people of, you
know, we all have families, we
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all have lives.
Like I used to be more of that
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entrepreneur.
That was like, I have to respond
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to people 24/7.
I have to always be at my
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computer.
I have to always be doing these
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things because that's what you
do when the hustle, hustle,
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hustle, hustle.
And I still hustle very hard.
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But it doesn't always have to
look like that, like somebody
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can wait a day for my answer
because I'm spending it with my
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family.
So working with other people as
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that.
So that's another thing.
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I very much try and shout from
the rooftop, Yeah.
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Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
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And I think the the skill of
being able to identify and then
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execute a brand is obviously
it's why we exist as creators in
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our realm, right?
But so useful in everyday life
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too.
Like you mentioned personal
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brand earlier, even if someone's
not, you know, opening a
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marketing agency tomorrow or, or
something like personal brand in
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itself can open doors for you
professionally, but also like
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help you navigate the world and
communicating with others.
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And I don't know, it's, it's a
lot and some of it comes from
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like a lot of people and it's
not their fault most of the
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time, like don't take the time
to reflect on themselves and
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know what it is that drives.
Them and learn more of those
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things and just be able to like
I always ask people, I do you
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have a personal mission
statement and 9 out of 10 people
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don't or even if they are an
entrepreneur, then they align
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with what their business mission
is and there's a difference.
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There should be a difference.
You should be very aligned to
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what your business mission is
because it is you.
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But no matter if you're, like
you said, professionally or
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life, no matter what you do, if
you're a stay at home mom or you
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work a nine to five in a
corporate world, or you work for
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a small business or you own your
own business, you should have a
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personal mission statement.
And if your personal mission
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statement does not align with
what you're doing, who you're
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around or what business you work
for, then that's the number one
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thing of oh, then I'm, I should
leave.
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I should go find something that
does align to me in that way,
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you know?
That's where satisfaction comes
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from.
Yeah, yeah.
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So awesome.
Let's let's back it up with Cog.
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How'd you get into marketing
though?
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Like how did how did marketing
come about?
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Right, right.
So I've always been an artist,
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always painted, always been an
abstract artist in that way.
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And I actually was gonna go to a
four year school for English.
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I, I loved reading so I always
wanted to go to school for
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English and get more into the
book world and whatnot and still
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have my art.
But then about 3 months before I
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was supposed to go to college, I
was like, why am I going to go
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get on all this debt?
I'm going to stay home.
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I'm going to go to GB and get my
4 year.
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And then about a month before
that I was like, why am I going
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to go into all this debt?
Again?
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I'm like, I'm going to go to
NWTC and I'm going to get a
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degree in business and I'm going
to, I'm going to get a degree
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that I can do anything with.
And I'm going to learn all
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these, you know, different
perspectives in the business
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realm and where that takes me.
I can navigate from there and do
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what I'd like.
You know, I've always had the
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sense of what I want to do and
who I want to be.
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And it's always been a creative
thing.
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It was never like, oh, I grew up
and I was like, I want to do
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marketing one day, you know, but
it was always I wanted, I knew I
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was meant to do something bigger
within creativity.
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So then when I went to NWTC, one
of my first classes was
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marketing.
And instantly I was like, this
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is it.
This is the way that I can be
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creative, but be in the business
realm and under understanding
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that, like the art didn't have
to be my business, which I'm
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really, really glad that I just
saw that and realized that at a
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young age because I love just
making my art for me, you know,
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and for the to put on my walls
and to give to people.
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I I'm glad I didn't monetize
that because then it turns into
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having to create for money and
and hustle to do those things.
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So yeah, I really was able to
see that it's how I can combine,
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you know, more of the logistical
side of my brain and the
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creative side and be able to
take that psychology and and
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actually help other businesses
in that realm.
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So then I I just kind of started
it.
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I made myself a role.
I worked at a pharmacy,
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Luxembourg pharmacy up closer by
Door County.
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And I was working as a tech all
through high school and in
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college.
And I went to her and I said,
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can I be your marketing manager?
Like I just asked.
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And she's like, yeah, OK 'cause
I was kinda helping with some
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social media stuff anyways.
And so started doing the social
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media and like, hosting some
events and just overall
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marketing for her.
So I was able to have a really,
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you know, casual way to learn
and grow in it.
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And then when I graduated
college, I decided to move to
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Florida and I was down in
Florida and still working
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remotely doing this marketing
and then started just kind of
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picking up doing some freelance.
I had this girl who was a bit of
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a mentor of mine that helped me,
you know, understand that I
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could do this freelance.
Like you don't have to have a
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whole business to do it.
I can just casually, you know,
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word of mouth, meet these
people.
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So I started to do that and then
I was actually going to start my
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own clothing brand first, but I
was 20 years old in a one
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bedroom apartment in Naples, FL,
and that's not cheap.
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So I was like, where am I going
to put these clothes?
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How am I going to pay for them?
You know, I thought about the
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overhead, which was smart.
And I said, you know, why don't
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I take my own advice that I give
these these clients and start
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marketing myself.
So that's how the Bold Marketing
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Agency came to be.
Yeah, yeah.
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Yeah, there's a nugget in there
for a lot of folks that I don't
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want to go undersold.
And it's when you asked if you
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could do it.
Yeah, Yeah, that is the, that's
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a, that's a, a, a barrier that
so many people allow them to not
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do something because like, sure.
And maybe it's a little
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uncomfortable, like, yeah,
depending on what you're asking
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is and what the ask is, it might
be a little uncomfortable to do,
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but.
What's the worst you're going to
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say?
Literally.
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Yeah, that's it.
That's the.
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Worst.
Yeah, yeah.
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And I'll talk with people about
career search sometimes and like
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finding an internship or
whatever.
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And often times it's like I just
can't find what I'm looking for,
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you know, and I'm OK.
And then I dig a little bit,
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like, what are you doing?
How are you trying to find it?
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Right.
Well, I find I've probably
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applied to 20 jobs on Indeed
that I found.
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And I make my resume perfect and
I write him a cover letter and I
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send it.
And I'm like, have you ever,
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have you sent anybody a message
on LinkedIn saying, Hey, I, I
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want to work for?
You right.
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I just love what you're doing.
Yeah, that's how I got my first
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employee that she is now going
to be celebrating her one year.
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She messaged you saying she digs
what you're.
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Doing she literally reached out.
I've actually had multiple
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employees that way come to me
and they just make the
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initiative.
And that right there is almost
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like this secret, I guess not
secret now, not to blast it, but
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that like that's kind of your
first Test.
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Do you take the initiative?
Like are you bold with it?
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You know, if you come to me and
you were bold in what you just
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asked and said, even if, you
know, do I have if I have the
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role to fill?
OK, yeah.
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You're probably one of the top
contenders then because you took
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that initiative.
But yeah, just just taking the
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initiative of like, you know,
what's the worst they say is no.
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Your inbox is going to fill up
now.
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Oh God.
Literally, it already does.
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And I'm like, I'm terrible
because I love, I love giving
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younger.
I'm young, but like, I love
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giving younger people the
opportunity for a job.
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Because in the marketing world,
obviously we know so many places
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are like, you need five years of
experience, you need this much
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experience.
How am I supposed to have
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experience when I'm in college?
Like, what do you mean?
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How I haven't even been in the
real world for five years?
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Like, what do you mean?
And I feel so I feel so bad for
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that, that realm that like
these, these, you know, college
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kids are trying to get these
jobs and they really don't have
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sometimes the opportunity to do
so.
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So I always want to be able to
be that person if I can support
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it.
But I also know that like, I'm a
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small business still and
growing, but I don't want to
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have this giant team either.
So I continue to navigate how I
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can still support all those
people that do reach out.
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Yeah.
Yeah.
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Yeah, but that's a nugget there
like that just, you know, you
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can call it using a, you know,
whatever, going the extra mile
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or whatever you want to call it.
But no, but like just create the
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conversation, especially with
yours, because there's so much
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like it makes sense with that
being bold, reaching out too
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bold, you know, But yeah, I
didn't want to, I didn't want
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that to go under sold because
it's super, super important.
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Fascinating how you end up on a
marketing though.
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And but that's how a lot of
people do it.
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You know, you, you do take one
class, do 1 project and it's
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like, Dang, this is kind of, and
I think part of that is because
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like there's so many realms
within it that you can choose
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are yours.
Like you can, you can be a brand
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person, right?
You can be a product person.
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Yeah, if you want to, you can be
a research and excel person.
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Like you can do all of these
different things that are
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different people.
Yeah, within marketing.
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Yeah, yeah.
So yeah, I just, I just had to
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hear, had to hear your version
of that, right.
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OK.
So as you kind of navigated that
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you did what a lot of people do
of like doing it without a
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without a presence first, like
it was word of mouth, you got a
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couple clients do it up.
When in that timeline do you
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say, OK, bold marketing is born?
That would have, I don't know
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what I don't have a exact on.
Like from the time I started
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kind of and asked for that job
and then the freelance, but then
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the agency, I started thinking
of the ideas.
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Like I vividly remember being in
my bedroom in Naples and like
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brainstorming names and whatnot.
And that was April of 2022.
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And then I announced the the
business on my Instagram on June
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20th, 2022.
So it took that time for
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development and then officially
launched on that day.
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So I like to say my birthday is
June 5th and the business is
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June 20th, and June 20th is the
last day of Gemini.
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So we're both Geminis.
So it's just my month.
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It is quite literally my month.
Nice.
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Yeah, That's good.
That's a good.
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It's a yearly reset for you.
Yeah.
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And when you do what you do,
your work becomes your life and
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your life becomes your work.
So there's this.
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There's not much space in
between there anyway, so you
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might as well both have
birthday.
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And then you can have the same
parties.
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Yep.
Oh, I no, I'm still ridiculous
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at that.
I throw two different ones.
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We throw the the fashion show
that we host, the bold fashion
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show is literally the birthday
party, OK.
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It's the most over the top
birthday party ever, and it's
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very on brand nice.
Yeah, yeah.
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OK.
So knowing you wanted to be a
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marketer, opening your business
moving forward then and they're
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never going to stop.
There's all of these little,
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there's all of these little
barriers, these little tough
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points, these things that you
have to work through and around
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and become persistent and
tenacious in what you do.
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It seems like you do that very
well.
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How do you, how do you navigate
those when something comes up
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where you're like, Dang, I
didn't see this coming.
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How do you navigate that as a
business owner?
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Oh God, that's a good question.
I feel very the less that like
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naturally my like my parents are
incredible and the number one
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thing that they taught us is to
be an individual and like how
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can I support myself and and not
in a way of like, oh, it's only
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you fend for yourself.
You know, anyone is your
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support.
Our support system is there
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whenever we need it, but that
you know, how do you count on
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you to solve the situation like
and be solution minded in
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everything.
And I got taught this is
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actually not from my parent.
This was from somebody else that
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they taught me.
Give yourself a timeline.
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Like I am very naturally more
emotional driven emotionally.
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I'm Italian Gemini creative,
like that's a lot going on in
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the brain.
You know, that's a very out
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there personality and I'm and
I'm more emotionally driven in
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that sense.
So I had to learn a lot of ways
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to kind of armor up and be more
of that like, okay, you can't
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just sit here and cry.
And I got taught give yourself a
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timeline of like give yourself
10 minutes to go scream in a
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pillow, go cry, go punch a wall.
Whatever you gonna do, get it
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out, feel it, digest it,
understand it.
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Why are you feeling that way?
And like what did happen and
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react to it.
But you get 10 minutes and then
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10 minutes is done.
OK, what's the solutions?
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Like, how can I get out of this?
Or where can I go to make this
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better?
And from your solutions, pick
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which one feels most aligned and
stick with your gut of what?
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What it's telling you has been a
huge thing for me.
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And just realizing that it all
works out, you know, and it's
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all meant to happen exactly how
it happens.
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I'm a firm believer in that and
that every little thing happens
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exactly the way it needs to.
And I don't I don't believe in
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the word failure or mistakes
because it's just, you know, it
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sounds cliche, but it's all
lessons.
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Like I've learned something from
every single thing.
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Even if it was something that I
look back like, Dang, that that
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was not ideal, you know, not an
ideal situation, but I learned a
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lot from it and I went to I'm
very, I learned from the
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experience of a lot of things,
like school, for example.
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School for me, I actually had a
realization not that long ago.
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I was, you know, shower thoughts
and I'm like sitting there like,
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oh, oh, that's what they meant
by supply chain in school.
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And I didn't realize it until I
was like actually doing the
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things.
And I was like, oh, OK, that's
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how it actually works in real
life.
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You know, for me, school was I
have to have the actually real
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life thing going on for me to
fully understand the picture.
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Yeah, yeah.
But yeah, definitely the tough
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Italian skin and then learning
the different things along the
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way to to armor up and continue
to get through it all.
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Yeah, yeah.
It's a it's a value, it's a
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moving target for a lot, but
it's valuable, especially for an
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entrepreneur.
Yeah, because those things are
443
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,320
going to come up.
Let's let's hang on the apparel
444
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,640
thing for a little bit.
Let's also have a.
445
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,360
Forward beverage, yes, let's do
it, but.
446
00:24:08,120 --> 00:24:10,960
Let's hang on the apparel thing
for a little bit is the Cheers
447
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:18,000
person.
Yes, Cheers absolutely is the is
448
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,120
the apparel thing.
You make your clothes right now
449
00:24:20,120 --> 00:24:21,640
a lot of the apparel that you
wear?
450
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,000
Yep.
Do you have future thoughts for
451
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:25,520
it?
Is that is that going to grow?
452
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,120
Yeah.
So it's always been, like I
453
00:24:28,120 --> 00:24:31,600
said, kind of I wanted to start
this clothing company 1st and
454
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,920
realize, you know, maybe not the
best idea at the moment, but I
455
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,240
still have the branding for all
of that.
456
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,680
It's actually called Statements
Clothing brand.
457
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,800
And one day I do want that.
Right now, I'm very glad.
458
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,120
I'm very, very happy with where
my kind of, you know, fashion
459
00:24:47,120 --> 00:24:52,880
design career is at of that I
make things where when I feel
460
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,280
inspired and how I feel inspired
and I use the fashion show to be
461
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,560
that cultivation of those
things.
462
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,280
But for me, fashion is such a
piece of that personal brand.
463
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,560
Like I always like to say, you
know, we're not judging a book
464
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,760
by its cover, but we can give it
an invitation.
465
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,800
You know, like anybody picks up
a book and is like, you may look
466
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,400
at it and be like, this looks
really boring.
467
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:14,480
I'm probably not going to buy
this.
468
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:16,720
And if it's a little more
pizzazz and fun, you're going to
469
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,520
be like, I like this, I'm going
to grab it.
470
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,040
And but every person's different
on which one they're going to
471
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,080
pick up because of who they are,
you know, back to the branding.
472
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:25,840
There's a reason we judge books
by the cover.
473
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:30,120
Yeah, you know, and it's like,
so how can I represent myself to
474
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,160
show up as that authentic
version of myself to give people
475
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,480
a glimpse of the puzzle?
Like I wear some wack ass shit
476
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,640
sometimes.
And it's like people either look
477
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,880
at it like, what the hell are
this chick wearing?
478
00:25:42,120 --> 00:25:44,240
Those type of people are
probably not approaching me.
479
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,720
And those type of people are
probably not the people that are
480
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,080
gonna even like me.
And that's OK.
481
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,520
You know, they're not for me.
But the people that come up to
482
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,200
me are like even just my
glasses.
483
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:58,120
And it's such an easy
conversation starter.
484
00:25:58,120 --> 00:26:00,680
Like it's so much easier to be
like, hey, I really like your
485
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,000
glasses or hey, I really like
your shoes instead of hi, my
486
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,280
name is Amanda.
Like that can feel so awkward.
487
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,880
I'm so extroverted and that
feels awkward for me.
488
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,040
So like introverts.
Oh my God, they would they.
489
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,040
That's such an anxious thing to
do, but it's so much more.
490
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,120
It's so much more inviting to
just be like, Oh, I, I like what
491
00:26:19,120 --> 00:26:22,880
you're wearing, you know, and I
put a lot of back to the
492
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,200
statements clothing and I put
statements on my clothing.
493
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:29,800
Like I, I love being able to, to
have these inspirational
494
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,440
messages that either I create or
I find and I feel very inspired
495
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,720
by and representing that at my
clothes.
496
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,480
People read it and, you know,
they feel, they feel something
497
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,040
from it.
And the right people are going
498
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,360
to feel something and either
feel inspired and either come
499
00:26:44,360 --> 00:26:48,320
talk to me or they are going to
just go home and, and maybe
500
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,880
think about it.
And I really like being able to
501
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,480
kind of have that piece of the
puzzle.
502
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,240
But yeah, just having people
encouraging other people to show
503
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,640
up in that way of like, what
makes you feel good, look good,
504
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,480
feel good and that, yeah, it
really can be that invitation to
505
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,800
who I am, Yeah.
Yeah.
506
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,360
So, so there are some plans
there.
507
00:27:08,360 --> 00:27:11,480
There are some, yeah.
I know it'll, it will come one
508
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,200
day, but I want I really want to
be able to have the agency
509
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,560
running.
I don't want to leave my agency
510
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,880
like I'm not the business owner.
That's like, oh, I want to build
511
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,080
it, build it, build it and then
exit.
512
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,680
I want to be a part of it.
I want to be doing those brand,
513
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:28,200
those brands for a long time and
always will, but being able to
514
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,880
have the systems, the operations
really, really running well.
515
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,520
And we're in the midst of that
right now of getting it really
516
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,240
where we want it to be.
So when when that's a little
517
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,480
more like that and I can have
more of that time to time in
518
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,320
means to do so to just really
invest and have it be more of
519
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,640
that passion that like, I don't
really want it to be this thing
520
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,920
that's going to oh, I need it.
I need this to survive, you
521
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,600
know, my fashion.
I don't want it to be that.
522
00:27:53,600 --> 00:28:00,120
I want it to be where I create
quarterly launches and lines
523
00:28:00,120 --> 00:28:02,920
that align.
I really love the seasons and
524
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,320
are more, you know, what am I
inspired by throughout this
525
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,120
quarter of life and go and bring
that onto there where the brand
526
00:28:10,120 --> 00:28:14,840
is a little more simple as a
whole, but then each line is
527
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,400
kind of centered around
something inspirationally
528
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,400
because I'm.
I love 10 million things.
529
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,080
Like I me too.
Yeah.
530
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,480
Like I literally love so many
different things and I have
531
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,160
these weird, I remember like
weird quirky facts about random
532
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:29,640
things.
Like most people look at me and
533
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,600
wouldn't think I like basketball
and I love basketball.
534
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,960
Like I have fun little fact.
I have a Dennis Rodman tattoo on
535
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:40,880
my arm and like people are like
what what they ask me about it,
536
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,360
But it's like, you know, I love
basketball and I I love all
537
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:45,640
those things.
They're like I have a guitar
538
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,640
tattoo in my arm and even though
I don't play guitar, I could
539
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,560
literally tell you, you could
set up five guitars in front of
540
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:52,640
me.
I could name every single one of
541
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,920
them.
Like no, tell you all the stuff.
542
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,920
So like I just have these weird
little quirky things that I
543
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,960
really get invested into in
ways.
544
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:05,440
So I I love the idea of having
it be that quarterly way I can
545
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,800
represent and talk to so many
different audiences.
546
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:13,080
That inspires more of that
authenticity though, in every
547
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,600
single one of them.
So awesome.
548
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,240
Yeah, and on brand.
Right.
549
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,480
Yeah.
Yeah, producer Dan's ears perked
550
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,800
up a little bit.
He's a basketball coach.
551
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,920
Oh, I love it.
Yeah.
552
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,560
That's awesome though, and
that's so good.
553
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,400
And and I think that'll allow
you that, you know, that
554
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,360
execution style will allow you
to keep that feeling of like
555
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:38,120
this isn't you're not bogged
down by it being a job or how
556
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:39,600
you.
I always tell that with people
557
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,840
about the podcast, like it's
not, it's not how I eat.
558
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,280
So I get to, I get to do it how
I wanted to do it.
559
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,440
At one time in my life, radio
was how I ate.
560
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,920
And it changes how you
communicate and it changes what
561
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:52,360
it is.
And it exists.
562
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:53,160
Yeah.
Yeah.
563
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,360
And usually the things that are
those passion things turn into
564
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,960
where it does feed.
Well, they're the best things
565
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,080
anyway.
Which is the agency, Like that's
566
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,160
a form of the agency.
But I knew the agency would be
567
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,720
the way that, you know, it's
always in demand.
568
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,120
People don't need clothes,
people need marketing, you know?
569
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,480
Like they need clothes, not your
clothes.
570
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,240
Yeah, yeah.
We're like, I'm not, you know,
571
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,880
making the casual just T-shirts
you're going to buy from
572
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,880
Walmart, you know?
So those are more things that it
573
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,720
is the thing that are kind of
that step up on the hierarchy of
574
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,440
Maslow, you know, and all those
things.
575
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,200
So it would be more of that art
in that sense, yeah.
576
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,640
Yeah, it's too awesome.
I'm excited for that podcast
577
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,560
episode that's existing.
We'll talk about.
578
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:33,640
Yeah.
Cool.
579
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:34,840
That's awesome.
Yeah.
580
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,320
Well, Speaking of the guitars,
let's let's hang there for a
581
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:37,720
minute.
Yeah.
582
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,800
I saw you at an awesome show the
other day.
583
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,800
That was.
Yeah, that was beautiful.
584
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,000
So that was my first concert
series that I'd been there.
585
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,680
I'd been there for ramen night
before, but I'd not.
586
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,520
I've been to a concert and I
that was beautiful.
587
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,360
Yeah, I hadn't.
That was my first time at 335.
588
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,360
Oh, really?
Yeah, I had never been there.
589
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,400
I had some previous guests that
said I had to get Chris on the
590
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,120
podcast.
So I was, I was kind of, you
591
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,640
know, half.
I love seeing that's like,
592
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,400
that's my type of music.
Like I love songwriters.
593
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,400
It's my type of jam.
And I've been working with Chris
594
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,680
for a while to get a date for
the podcast.
595
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:15,880
And I saw that and I was like,
well, I gotta experience
596
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:19,080
everything I've heard about it.
Speaking of a brand.
597
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,080
Yeah.
Like, I need experience.
598
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,080
Yeah.
I was like, okay, well, I need
599
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,880
to experience this before I talk
with him about who he is,
600
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,600
because I think it's gonna be
this glimpse of of the person.
601
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:33,560
Yeah, but what a killer show.
So that's the kind of music you
602
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,520
get into too.
You like songwriter type stuff?
603
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:39,720
I definitely have a wide range
of music, but of what I love
604
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:44,120
pretty much like the only things
I don't love is like heavy rap,
605
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:48,000
like or really, really heavy
metal and no diss to anyone who
606
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,560
loves that.
But like if I feel like it's
607
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,880
screaming at me, I just kind of
crawl away a little bit.
608
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,160
But some like my sister, I
literally, she'll be like
609
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,440
cleaning the shower and she's
just listening to heavy screamo
610
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,480
music.
And I'm like, if that's what
611
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,520
you're into, I'm really glad
that you're scrubbing away at
612
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,960
the tub with that like.
Just taking it out on the tub.
613
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:12,480
Literally, literally.
But I love all different types
614
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,120
of music, but folk and more of
that is definitely my top three.
615
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:21,920
I would say like rock, folk and
like house music is my top
616
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:22,800
three.
That's.
617
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,520
A good blend for life
activities.
618
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:25,880
Yeah, one for each little thing
you.
619
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,160
Do a little dabble of each.
But the thing I love most about
620
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:34,760
that show is just the creativity
on every level of like the way
621
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,920
that the that they shared their
story of how they actually
622
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:41,040
created the song and then sang
the song.
623
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,840
And I was like the glimpse of
the creative process is
624
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,160
something you don't get from
large shows.
625
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,880
Like you don't really get that
when you go to a big arena, you
626
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:54,000
know, and listen to these big
artists and in an intimate space
627
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,320
like that, it was it was
beautiful.
628
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,840
Like you laugh one minute and
then you cry the next.
629
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:03,120
And it's like how how beautiful
that these people are created
630
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,120
this and now are having the
courage to get up in front of
631
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,000
people and share their art with
the world that they randomly
632
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,960
made a song about a dog or have
made a song about their mom.
633
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,240
You know, it was that was really
beautiful.
634
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,800
And I enjoyed that a lot.
Yeah.
635
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,560
Yeah, I think about that, like,
especially after a show like
636
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:25,760
that, I think about like every
time they do that, they have to
637
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,520
leave a little bit of peace.
They leave a little piece of
638
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:34,040
them behind with the audience.
And that's why I love it so
639
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,960
much.
Back to the realness and
640
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,960
authenticity, Like, yeah, the
I've never heard anybody execute
641
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,000
the in between songs quite like
Lou Hazel.
642
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,400
Oh my God.
I was laughing my ass off.
643
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,880
I literally was like, I went up
to him after I said you got to
644
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:48,720
be making shit off.
This can't be real.
645
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,560
He's like, no, I swear to God,
these stories are real.
646
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,440
I was like, dude, hilarious.
I went and bought a monster
647
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,240
shirt.
Yeah, I had to.
648
00:33:56,280 --> 00:34:00,520
Yeah, I wish I would have bought
a monster shirt, but I didn't.
649
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,320
But yeah, even that story was
was so.
650
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,520
Hilarious.
He was funny.
651
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:08,360
Yeah, but that like that
scenario, were you at the, were
652
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:09,800
you at the like food beforehand
or did?
653
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,320
You come from the concert?
No, it just came from the
654
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,360
concert.
OK, really random how I came.
655
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,920
My friend just was like, hey, I
bought tickets a while back.
656
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,360
I thought my boyfriend be able
to come with me, but he can't do
657
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,400
I come with?
And I was like, yeah, hell yeah.
658
00:34:21,679 --> 00:34:24,760
So randomly we had dinner before
and then came OK, nice.
659
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,920
So like even even from just the
concert, I bet they were.
660
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,760
But like the you said, you
mentioned the experience thing
661
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:36,199
earlier, like your wheels would
have been turning the entire
662
00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:39,639
time you were there.
Seeing how he curates this, this
663
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:45,760
environment and like it's, it's
all marketing without any of it
664
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,400
being marketing.
Literally, it's just like.
665
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:49,600
And that's what we're aiming
for, right?
666
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,360
That's probably what you aim for
with your clients.
667
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,679
You want people to, you want it
to be marketing without thinking
668
00:34:54,679 --> 00:34:55,440
it's marketing.
Right.
669
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:59,080
And just like the events too,
with arts, like subbing out with
670
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:03,080
having bold events now, Yep,
like the way that Chris executes
671
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,160
that, like we said, experience
of that.
672
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:10,040
It's just every point of the
process of the moment.
673
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,880
Somebody opens the door for you
all the way down to having your
674
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,400
name to to where you can put
your coat to where you can sit
675
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:20,040
and how people serve you and you
know, create that how we said
676
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:25,080
curate that ambience of it.
It it's what those are the
677
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:29,360
things that change people like
literally to go home and feel
678
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:34,600
something more and then carry
that into their life is what's
679
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,080
really beautiful to me.
Yeah, absolutely.
680
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,360
So how do you do that for
clients?
681
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:46,040
So honestly, we I'd say I do
that more for ourselves when it
682
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,480
comes to the events more so than
our clients.
683
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,640
Yeah, It's really hard to do
that with a marketing strategy
684
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,400
because there's not enough touch
points to, there's not enough.
685
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,440
You try, we try to do that, but
there's not enough touch points
686
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:03,440
to like, impact or affect every
single part along the consumer
687
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,720
journey.
Especially with content and
688
00:36:05,720 --> 00:36:09,680
social media, like it's so quick
and it's like you kind of got to
689
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:13,160
catch people to direct people
and then that that call to
690
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,800
action is the more.
But like, I actually been
691
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:22,080
wanting to get more into
actually executing other events
692
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:26,320
for people like that of like
people will come to us and be
693
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:30,960
like, hey, this is an event that
I want to put on and thinking of
694
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,080
every little detail, you know,
like you came to our think
695
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:37,000
outside of the box event.
And I just want to continue to
696
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,640
create these spaces for people
to be very comfortable and not
697
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:44,160
feel weird being really
vulnerable.
698
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,000
And like how I said, we're all
just human beings, you know?
699
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:52,680
So how can we create that space
for every little detail for
700
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,160
people to not feel anxious?
And where do I have to park?
701
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,800
Where do I go in?
What's going to happen when I'm
702
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,280
there?
You know, people are so
703
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,080
naturally anxious to those
things.
704
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:07,680
And how can you ease that
anxiousness before they even
705
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,960
walk through the door?
And then when they are in the
706
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,160
door, how can you ease that and
think of all those little
707
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,480
details and just continuing to
appreciate, like, thank you for
708
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,480
being here and showing up and
not only supporting my business,
709
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,880
but like taking the time out of
your evening to actually show up
710
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:28,000
and be here and for yourself is
awesome.
711
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:32,560
And then going home, Like I
always, I always give a a little
712
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:37,360
piece of art that I think of
that's on brand with it, you
713
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,240
know, for like the think outside
of the box event, those little
714
00:37:39,240 --> 00:37:42,120
canvases that I wrote think
outside of the box on with them
715
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:45,400
and painted them all.
And then for the branding event,
716
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:50,600
I got a bunch of blank puzzles
where I painted on them or I
717
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,160
wrote like stable, they're like
you're on a bold journey or
718
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,360
something like that.
But then I specifically gave
719
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:01,360
certain people certain messages
that I knew would resonate with
720
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,840
them.
And the idea was like, you know,
721
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,080
building a brand is pieces of
the puzzle.
722
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,840
So they got to take this home
and then they build this puzzle.
723
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,240
And but like the amount of
people that have messaged me
724
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:16,080
after that first event and every
event that we do, and they send
725
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:19,920
me pictures of these pieces of
art where they have them in
726
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,160
their home.
And then they share like, thank
727
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,520
you for this.
You know, I shared it with my
728
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,960
friend or thank you for this.
I think about it every time I'm
729
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,440
working.
And that's the whole, like, for
730
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:33,200
me, I realized that's a huge
superpower of mine that like, I
731
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,480
really, it's like the small gift
I can give to the world of, you
732
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,560
know, we all want to make the
world a better place in our own
733
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,680
unique way.
But sometimes that feels very,
734
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,000
the world's a big place, you
know, like how, how do I make
735
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,040
that difference?
But just that little piece of
736
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,200
like, I'm, I didn't even realize
that I actually had this recent
737
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,800
realization that like it's, I'm
paying it forward without even
738
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,880
realizing I was paying it
forward of these people are
739
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,120
going home and then sharing it
and sharing it.
740
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,440
And then we continue to have
that and just like, why do we
741
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:09,160
gather, you know, if there's no
reason for this event or this,
742
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,880
this gathering of whatever it
might be, then why are you if
743
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:14,560
you don't have that purpose,
then why are you doing it?
744
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,400
Is it, is there should there be
a purpose and you just don't
745
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,520
know it or like genuinely, is
this so irrelevant all the way
746
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:25,360
down to meetings, you know, and
distinguishing that to make it
747
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,360
so much more intimate and
relevant so that nobody feels
748
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,080
like they went away wasting
their time.
749
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,640
Yeah, You know, it's almost like
the concept of background TV.
750
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,320
Yeah.
Like you don't want to be
751
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:40,720
background TV, you want to be
either focused in on it or you
752
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,760
like at least for me, I'm either
watching it or like that's not
753
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,280
in my purview, right, You know?
Yeah.
754
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,480
And I guess I, I need to, I need
to rephrase from earlier because
755
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,560
I, I definitely know how we, we
met originally, but I couldn't
756
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:54,720
remember if I reached out
earlier.
757
00:39:54,720 --> 00:40:00,120
And that your event was like I
that like that stands out in
758
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:06,720
memory for so many reasons
because like I like had been
759
00:40:06,720 --> 00:40:10,080
watching you build your brand
and then this event comes up
760
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:13,440
that completely aligns with like
authenticity is something I'm
761
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,960
super passionate about.
Two in like year and four at
762
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,960
times.
So like that was the first time
763
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,240
we had met in person.
Yeah.
764
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:25,240
But yeah, sidebar, I just wanted
to clarify that.
765
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,040
In my mind, 'cause I think you
were connected on LinkedIn for a
766
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,600
little while because I saw that
Sarah was on here on the
767
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,280
podcast.
And then so then I started
768
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,000
following along.
But then when you walked into
769
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,640
the door, I was like, why does
he look so familiar to me?
770
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,560
Like, why does he look so
familiar to me?
771
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,080
But I can't put my put it on.
Like I literally like couldn't
772
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,520
remember in that exact moment,
'cause I was meeting, having so
773
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:45,480
many people come through the
door.
774
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,360
And then you came up to me after
and I was like, that's how I
775
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:49,480
know you.
Duh.
776
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:56,000
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, but that event like that
777
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,400
is the the a shining example of
that.
778
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:03,040
It's the example of not doing
something just to do something,
779
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,560
but doing something with a
purpose and something that
780
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,920
matters to you.
And given you're not always
781
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,200
going to get everybody to open
up, but you'll probably move
782
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,520
everybody's needle like the the
most introverted person there is
783
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:17,040
probably not going to come in
and tell me that the dog just
784
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,840
died.
But you might get them to a
785
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,280
place where, you know, I'm not
actually feeling that great
786
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:22,920
today.
Yeah.
787
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,280
And that's a move, right, For
some people.
788
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,600
And like, to feel like, oh, I
don't feel alone, actually.
789
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,640
And like that I'm going to have
this conversation in front of
790
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,840
people that it doesn't need to
be weird to talk about life.
791
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:34,600
Yeah.
You know.
792
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,960
Yeah, that puzzle idea has some
legs.
793
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,840
You could go a lot of different
directions with that.
794
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,280
Think about if you had like a
networking event like that where
795
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,280
the puzzle pieces somehow like
you had to find the pieces
796
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,880
around you to like build the
bigger puzzle.
797
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,160
Oh my God, I love it.
That would be.
798
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,720
Really cool, by the way.
And then, like, that would have
799
00:41:52,720 --> 00:41:55,320
to be like, you'd have to talk
to everybody because you'd have
800
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,960
to find whose piece matches
you're saying.
801
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,440
Oh, OK.
We're cooking.
802
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:00,000
We are cooking.
Write that down.
803
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,040
Write that down.
Yeah.
804
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:02,440
Not the workshop, this or
anything.
805
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,760
But.
Just for my mind went and I'm
806
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:09,800
not the I envy people who can
execute events well because I am
807
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:14,280
not one of those.
I'm I'm a brand strategy person.
808
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:19,800
I can curate a person's journey
towards buying something really
809
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:23,080
well.
I cannot curate somebody like an
810
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,720
event like 335 or your bold
event.
811
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,240
I cannot.
I'm not detailed enough.
812
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:30,880
Yeah.
I don't think about like
813
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,440
everybody's different perception
in a different way, right?
814
00:42:33,720 --> 00:42:35,440
Or like the logistics that go
into it.
815
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,440
Oh yeah, it's just Yeah.
Yeah, I definitely, my mom owns
816
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,920
a catering company and I've been
in the hospitality industry
817
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,240
since I could have a job and
like even before that.
818
00:42:44,240 --> 00:42:49,960
So I definitely know that it was
very much rooted in that, that
819
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,440
so much of it came from those
understandings and just like
820
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:57,320
subconsciously understanding
those things without even
821
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,600
recognizing until I was older
and did it myself.
822
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:03,080
And I was like, yeah, that makes
sense, yeah.
823
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,760
Yeah, it's a tough thing to do.
It's a tough thing to do.
824
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:13,080
But is there like a, is there
like a process to that or like
825
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,000
is it repeatable in any way
because events are so different,
826
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,120
right?
What's how do you how do you do
827
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,480
it?
So in some, some things are very
828
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,840
repeatable and some things we
can create those standard
829
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,080
operating procedures around of
like, you know, how do we set up
830
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,440
the ticket sales?
How do we, what, what timeline
831
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,320
do we need to market things?
You know, what timeline do we
832
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,080
have to have this done and this
done?
833
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,240
You know, we always have to
think about if people are having
834
00:43:37,240 --> 00:43:39,120
chairs or if they're not and all
those things.
835
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:43,800
But I usually start my process
in like a brainstorming just
836
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:47,600
kind of brain dump way where I
brain dump all the big stuff,
837
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,080
the overall.
And then I after that, I let
838
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:55,160
that sit for a little bit and
then I come back to it on a
839
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,920
second brainstorming and I go
into the details.
840
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:02,080
Then, you know, the first round
was like, OK, we need food, we
841
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:05,840
need drinks, we need cocktails,
we need chairs, we need tables.
842
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,000
How many people do I think I
want to have?
843
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,040
Where do we want this, You know,
kind of like that big dump.
844
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,520
And then that second one is more
of like, OK, where are we having
845
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:15,600
it?
Where is this venue?
846
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,240
Do I have one option or do I
have 3?
847
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:22,320
Which one's the best?
What for the actual food menu?
848
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:27,000
How can the food play into the
the event as a whole?
849
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,200
Like right now we're planning
stuff for the fashion show and
850
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:33,720
I'm the the purpose of the
fashion show is to celebrate
851
00:44:33,720 --> 00:44:35,920
creativity on every level of
like that.
852
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,640
How I said everything is
creative.
853
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,840
Every single thing that people
do every day is creative,
854
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:45,680
whether they think it or not.
And how can the food also speak
855
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,760
that message?
You know, like that's something
856
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,840
so little how you said the
attention to detail, but food
857
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:54,960
can also speak to our purpose
and the cocktails, you know,
858
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,160
what are we specifically going
to have for that?
859
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,080
What other businesses can we
have be a part of this?
860
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:04,360
Like, I'm a huge collaborator of
I, you know, people are like,
861
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:05,800
oh, how much do I have to pay to
be a part of it?
862
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,880
And I said, pay what?
No, I'm like, I just want you,
863
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,080
you're cool.
You want to be a part of it
864
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:11,080
here, please.
Yeah.
865
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:12,600
Like, just come to hang out,
please.
866
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,000
And it's like, OK, how can you
know who all aligns with those
867
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,320
as well that it can turn into
this awesomeness of just where
868
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,880
so many people's connections and
community come together and we
869
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:29,000
can build upon that.
So that's definitely kind of
870
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:30,400
like that second level of brain
dump.
871
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,880
And then it's awesome because
this year having my full team
872
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,720
and my sister is actually my
chief operations officer.
873
00:45:36,720 --> 00:45:43,400
And her brain, she is a veteran.
She is project management, like
874
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,080
her whole background.
And she's a single mother.
875
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,080
Like her whole background is
literally just like, organize,
876
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,480
operate, efficiency.
Yeah.
877
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,840
And my brain is like, so she's
helped me big time just
878
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,240
understanding more of that and
recognizing like where I can
879
00:45:58,240 --> 00:46:00,520
make those organizational
operations.
880
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,280
So she's then the third piece of
the puzzle though, where it's
881
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:07,960
like, OK, I just put down all
these ideas now how do we
882
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,040
execute this and how do we put
it into our project management
883
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,640
system that delegates it out to
the whole team?
884
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:17,440
Then like nobody's specifically
hired for an event role, but
885
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,160
everyone gets to just say, oh, I
want to do this, or oh, I like
886
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:21,920
this.
Oh, this is something I'd be
887
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:25,040
really interested in doing.
So then we all get our piece of
888
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,360
the puzzle to contribute to it
and make a cool event.
889
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,680
And then, yeah, through there is
the continued execution of those
890
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,760
little things until it's game
day.
891
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,200
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then stress out on game day.
892
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:40,440
They'll make sure everything
goes out.
893
00:46:40,720 --> 00:46:43,280
Well, right.
And thankfully I, I, I will say
894
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,720
like knock on wood, I do a
pretty good job of I think the
895
00:46:45,720 --> 00:46:48,120
week before is the most
stressful the day of.
896
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:51,200
I actually do a really good job
of where like there's not too
897
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,560
much I have to do.
But the week before my brain
898
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,400
goes into this mode of like, if
you're not working on the event,
899
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,920
what are you doing?
Like, and that's not when I
900
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,160
function my healthiest because
I'm the type of person that like
901
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:08,000
I've been so much better this
year about, OK, you have the
902
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:09,800
urge to paint, go paint
something.
903
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,840
It's OK if you don't work on
this exact project at this
904
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,400
moment.
OK, you feel really inspired to
905
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:16,680
create this whole branding
project.
906
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,080
Do it.
OK, you want to create content
907
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,480
right now, like flowing, like my
natural state is very good in my
908
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,000
flow state of wherever I feel
inspired.
909
00:47:24,240 --> 00:47:28,200
So the week before when my brain
tells my flow state to like, not
910
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,560
be that way because it's like,
you can't usually just paint
911
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:31,920
right now.
You need to do this.
912
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:36,840
You have 48 hours to do it.
Like so that's the stressful
913
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:42,960
week for me, but I'm learning.
That's a moving target for
914
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:46,320
anybody figuring out.
Yeah, you know, I had a chance
915
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:47,560
to.
Do you ever do any, like,
916
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,040
emotional intelligence work?
You ever do do any of that
917
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:51,800
stuff?
Of like personality tests or
918
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,280
just like from their
development?
919
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:54,520
Yeah.
And then the stuff of it.
920
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:57,800
So like recognizing where your
reactions come from and you ever
921
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:58,600
do that stuff?
Yeah.
922
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:02,120
So one of my favourites is the
Big 5 personality assessment and
923
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:06,200
we're actually offering that now
in our brand, like our branding
924
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:11,200
packages, we have people go
through this Big 5 assessment
925
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:15,200
and then I'm also now featuring
in human design.
926
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:16,880
Have you ever had a human design
thing done for?
927
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,760
You no, I've so interesting.
I only know enough to be
928
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,360
dangerous even I just know like
a little bit about it but.
929
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:26,040
Yeah, I just my, one of my, I
have a productivity coach and
930
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:30,520
she did one for me and I got it
a few days ago actually, and
931
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,400
read the whole thing at like
2:00 in the morning.
932
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,720
I was supposed to go to bed and
I was like, what?
933
00:48:34,720 --> 00:48:38,080
This is wild.
Everything about it was me to AT
934
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,600
and it helped me better in ways
of understanding.
935
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,200
They're like, yeah, what are
those triggers?
936
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,760
Or like my I need to stop
yelling at that flow state
937
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,240
because that's literally where
my natural state works best.
938
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:54,640
I don't work on routine and
these other ways that typically
939
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:57,400
maybe society says, oh, this is
what you should do to be
940
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,440
productive.
Like, I'm not somebody.
941
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,360
I'm never going to be that
person who I shouldn't say
942
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,600
never, but I don't get up at
5:00 AM.
943
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,240
You know, people used to always
say, oh, successful people get
944
00:49:06,240 --> 00:49:07,960
up at 5:00 AM.
Hell, yeah, they do.
945
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,920
But successful people also wake
up at 10 AM or 8:00 AM.
946
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,640
You know, like what works best
for you and your body.
947
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,040
Yeah.
And and your lifestyle and the
948
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:19,040
things you do.
Yeah, because that changes.
949
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,960
Like there was a point in time
where I'd completely agree with
950
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,800
you about just the timing thing.
Like, I was not an early riser,
951
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:26,360
right?
I was more effective in the
952
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,520
afternoon and evening.
And now just by like what life
953
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,640
demands and dictates and like
weaves you into right now.
954
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,960
I'm an extreme to the extreme
morning person.
955
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:38,040
I'll I can wake up at like 4:00
and just start hammering stuff
956
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,920
out, like and and then yeah.
And it's just, you know, it's.
957
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,280
It's, but you change and
develop.
958
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,120
Yeah, absolutely.
Yeah.
959
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,640
And I think, you know, reducing
or minimizing some of those
960
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:50,760
walls is a good thing.
So hearing a little bit more
961
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:54,800
about it, it is, you know, I did
a thing called positive
962
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,480
intelligence.
So this dude, I think he, his
963
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,760
name's Shahzad, I like.
It.
964
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,440
Yeah, Charmini or Harmini, I
can't remember exactly how to
965
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:05,880
what his last name is, but his
first name's Shahzad.
966
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,320
He's got an app along with a
book that he wrote called
967
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:09,800
Positive Intelligence.
He was a teacher at like
968
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:14,000
Stanford or something.
I can't remember, but ultimately
969
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:18,480
it identified what he called
saboteurs and you, it's kind of
970
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:19,960
sounds along the lines of what
you're getting.
971
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,680
Like why do I react the way I do
to certain instances?
972
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:28,760
And then once it's in the air,
once it exists, then you can
973
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:30,040
work on it.
But how are you supposed to work
974
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,640
on it if you don't know?
Like how are you supposed to be
975
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,720
less mad if you don't know it
pisses you off in the 1st place?
976
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:38,760
Like that's not how it works.
So I did this thing, got my
977
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,760
results, whatever, and had a
great opportunity to do this.
978
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:45,240
Like it was like a long time.
We did it for like 2 months or
979
00:50:45,240 --> 00:50:47,800
something where we'd meet in
groups and talk about through
980
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:51,120
these, these saboteurs and how
we could be more effective.
981
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,720
Just it was through the lens of
work.
982
00:50:53,720 --> 00:50:55,920
It was my work did it.
But really it was just as a
983
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:59,440
human like I, I became a better
husband, I became a better
984
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:03,480
person because I realized some
of these things that like
985
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,000
there's no way I ever would have
identified by myself.
986
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:10,880
And it, it was all about
actually, I think you started
987
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:14,240
off really our conversation
talking about each person has
988
00:51:14,240 --> 00:51:17,000
this unique set of steps that
got us to where we are today.
989
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:24,200
And all those steps mold how you
react to a situation.
990
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:29,040
And I can't remember what all of
the like stats are around it,
991
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:33,160
but like there's a certain
amount of time or or like space
992
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,440
in which we react like we have
no control.
993
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,240
Over right and it and it's that
natural state, yeah.
994
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:41,840
And it's, it's the a lot of the
saboteurs that do that.
995
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,040
So that's why I ask.
It's just fascinating work to
996
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:48,040
think about it, think through
that, growing as an individual
997
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:49,400
and stuff.
You'll have to send me that
998
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:50,520
stuff because that sounds
awesome.
999
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:53,080
I did.
I was at the Women's Leadership
1000
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:56,520
Conference and then I
volunteered for the high school
1001
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,680
Girls Leadership Conference this
year.
1002
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:03,280
And Ali Starr, she is a
basketball coach.
1003
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,200
Actually, I believe she's
Lawrence's girls basketball
1004
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:06,920
coach.
I believe.
1005
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:12,760
Don't quote me on that, but she
is an energetic Italian woman as
1006
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,600
well.
And she did an interactive like
1007
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,440
keynote where I got to
experience it as well-being a
1008
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,080
volunteer with these high school
girls of naming that saboteur.
1009
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,680
And you actually give it a name
of like who you know, it doesn't
1010
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:28,360
it shouldn't be somebody you
really like.
1011
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:30,920
It's somebody that's like, you
know, who do you think of that
1012
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:33,760
kind of speaks that way, that
reactive way that maybe isn't
1013
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,480
the healthiest parts, but who is
it?
1014
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,480
Let's give it a name so we can
identify it and either talk to
1015
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:41,080
it and and understand those
things that you said.
1016
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,280
Yeah.
So that was a that was a fun
1017
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,480
process to be able to do it.
And I love naming things, so I
1018
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,560
was all for it.
Yeah.
1019
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,320
Yeah, nice.
I you know, I can't believe I
1020
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:53,720
didn't go out, go more on it
when you said it, but we end up
1021
00:52:53,720 --> 00:52:55,400
going different directions.
But I gotta go back.
1022
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:57,280
No, let's do it.
The Rodman tattoo.
1023
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,880
How does how does that come into
existence?
1024
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,800
Like how do you have a Dentist
Rodman tattoo?
1025
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:08,040
So my dad, both my parents are
from Chicago originally, but
1026
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:12,960
then my dad, his family at Brown
Middle School, he moved up to
1027
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,480
there from moved up to Manaqua.
So my family mostly stayed
1028
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,200
rooted there.
But then my dad's parents got
1029
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,680
divorced.
So my grandpa went back down to
1030
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,640
Chicago and when my dad was in
his 20s, went back down, was
1031
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:28,200
living with his dad for, you
know, that period of time.
1032
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,600
And my parents met in Chicago in
their 30s and whatnot.
1033
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:36,200
But so my dad was in his 20s
when Michael Jordan was winning
1034
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:40,320
all their championships.
So he went to so many games, was
1035
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,000
at the parades, like all the
awesomeness of basketball, you
1036
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:47,720
know, like when it was that.
And so he would always tell me
1037
00:53:47,720 --> 00:53:50,400
these stories.
He has the awesome memorabilia
1038
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:54,440
that are like one-of-a-kind
things from people that he knew
1039
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,520
and people he would meet because
he worked at Maggiano's too.
1040
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:00,000
So we would meet a bunch of
people.
1041
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,080
And so he would tell me all
these stories and I loved it.
1042
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,320
And I'm, I'm a, I'm an old soul
in every way.
1043
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,520
So like, I just loved the
nostalgia of it.
1044
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,800
And then the Last Dance came out
and we watched it, binge watched
1045
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,440
it together.
And he would just continue to
1046
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:17,040
share these insights that like
the the last Dance couldn't
1047
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:18,480
provide.
It would give me a glimpse at it
1048
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,680
and then he'd add on to it.
So it was just this continued
1049
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:25,280
development that I loved of it,
and Dennis Rodman in particular,
1050
00:54:27,240 --> 00:54:31,920
talk about authentic dude is
himself.
1051
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:35,280
Like he broke every barrier
ever.
1052
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,440
Like he just showed up as
himself.
1053
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:41,880
And it made people think like,
in a time that you didn't do
1054
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,760
shit like that, he was showing
up with piercings in his face,
1055
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:47,880
the dyed hair doing whack.
Shit, the wedding dress.
1056
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:51,960
Stuff, Oh my God, like just so
out of pocket that it just made
1057
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,320
people sit there.
But you loved him like you loved
1058
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,920
him and he was a part of this
really, you know, masculine
1059
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,880
thing of basketball and Michael
Jordan and all of them winning
1060
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:05,600
their championships and and this
icon of an amazing basketball
1061
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:07,440
player.
And also the fact that so I
1062
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:10,720
played volleyball, it was a
libero my whole career.
1063
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:14,800
Defense, you know, I defense
wins championships.
1064
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:21,240
And so he has absolutely no
points ever, but rebounds,
1065
00:55:21,240 --> 00:55:25,320
rebounds, rebounds, like he is
just all over the place diving
1066
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,520
into stands, you know, like that
passion and that drive and that
1067
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,040
I'm getting the ball no matter
what.
1068
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,680
That's how I played.
Like I would dive into the
1069
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,720
stands.
I literally dove on to people
1070
00:55:34,720 --> 00:55:38,680
when I played and the passion
that you see in that type of
1071
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:42,560
playing, I am such a passionate
person that like, I loved it.
1072
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:44,960
And then, yeah, I loved how
weird you would show up.
1073
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,120
Like what basketball player has
dyed hair on the court?
1074
00:55:49,240 --> 00:55:52,480
And it was just so always out of
pocket and just authentic.
1075
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,440
And that's why I was like, yeah,
I love it.
1076
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,920
It's my mom's.
She hates the tattoo, to be
1077
00:55:57,920 --> 00:55:59,840
honest.
The other day I told her I was
1078
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,120
getting, I actually am getting a
tattoo removed that I don't
1079
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,320
love.
And I was like, yeah, I'm
1080
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:05,880
getting my tattoo removed.
And I'm like, I'm sure you can
1081
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:09,080
guess which one she's like.
I have a feeling it won't be the
1082
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:13,480
one I'd like, but I was like,
Dennis is staying there forever.
1083
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,280
Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.
Checks out.
1084
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,680
Yeah, yeah, he's certainly a
fascinating human.
1085
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:24,880
There's AI.
Can't remember if it's from The
1086
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:26,920
Last Dance or a different
documentary.
1087
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:28,800
It's his own documentary.
It was so good.
1088
00:56:29,720 --> 00:56:32,080
Yeah, it.
Could it was a one like a 30
1089
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,280
minute?
I feel like I watched that too,
1090
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:36,200
but I can't remember which one
it's from.
1091
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:39,680
But either way, like I I like
Phil Jackson, like he was a
1092
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:41,600
maestro with people like
navigating.
1093
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:45,960
And there's this really funny
thing about Michael's in it.
1094
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:50,080
I remember that part.
So Dennis decide like he's
1095
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:53,760
feeling stressed, he's feeling
overwhelmed and he's like, I
1096
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:55,120
need a vacation.
He goes to Vegas.
1097
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,920
Yeah, and he goes to Vegas in
the in the middle and.
1098
00:56:58,080 --> 00:56:59,360
In the midst of them.
Yeah.
1099
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,920
And then they in the
documentary, they cut to Michael
1100
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:07,280
and Michael's like what?
You need a vacation and and, but
1101
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,600
everybody let him go.
And Michael had to go get him
1102
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:12,320
though, Michael literally.
Did you get the part where he's
1103
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:15,480
like, Michael had to go get him
from Vegas, I think, or like
1104
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,760
from his apartment or something.
He'd go pick his ass up because
1105
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,040
he was drunk or hungover or
something.
1106
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:24,720
He's like, you're coming to
practice and, and he, Michael
1107
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:28,800
Jordan would say he could be out
all night and then literally go
1108
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,320
to practice and he would still,
like, outrun other people.
1109
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:32,840
Yeah.
You know, there's a cool story
1110
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:35,040
about Michael.
Somebody was golfing with
1111
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:37,960
Michael and said that they had
been golfing all day and Michael
1112
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:40,320
drank like 12 beers or whatever,
and they had a game that night
1113
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,360
and he bet him he was going to
score so many points and then
1114
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:43,800
went out and did it.
That's hilarious.
1115
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,440
Yeah.
It's such a different era.
1116
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:48,640
Seriously.
Yeah.
1117
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:51,840
OK.
So yeah, I had glad we got back
1118
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:53,440
there because I had to figure it
out.
1119
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:55,800
Yeah.
Of how that goes.
1120
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,280
Is it his face?
No, not his face.
1121
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:04,320
It's it's more of like a kind of
patch graphic tattoo of like his
1122
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,800
jersey, the back of the jersey
up.
1123
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:08,680
So it says Rodman.
And then like the top of his
1124
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:13,440
number with the stripes in red.
And then I was very selective in
1125
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,080
which hair I chose.
Yeah, right.
1126
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:19,920
So I always thought that it was
the one that looks like cheetah
1127
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:22,480
print, cheetah print.
And I always loved it the most.
1128
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,640
And then from the last dance, I
found out that it was actually
1129
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:27,560
33 sprayed all over his head
because it was the night that
1130
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:30,760
Scotty Pippen came back to play
from his injury.
1131
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:33,200
And I was like, oh, it's even
cooler then.
1132
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:35,320
So that was that was one I
chose.
1133
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,720
Which is, I think that's one of
the coolest parts about the worm
1134
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:45,000
is that he like is wild and
crazy and seemingly selfish at
1135
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,520
times.
His stuff was like, nobody
1136
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,760
around him ever says that stuff
about him.
1137
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:51,600
Yeah, nobody around him ever
says that.
1138
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:55,480
They they say that he's genuine
and caring and like in that
1139
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:57,240
scenario, like he's supporting
Scott.
1140
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,040
Right.
And he made statements like he
1141
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:02,400
made statements with his hair in
basketball, like it was just,
1142
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:03,920
you know, you have to wear a
uniform.
1143
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:07,960
I just love the fact of like, in
a space where you had to wear
1144
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:10,680
something specific, you have
rules, you have these
1145
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,880
guidelines, you have this box
that you are putting in a way in
1146
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,640
that role.
And he said, OK, where can I
1147
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,600
step outside of it, though?
And he said, OK, I can dye my
1148
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:22,600
hair and would literally make
statements with what he would
1149
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:26,520
put in his hair for a game in a
time that that didn't really
1150
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:29,720
happen, you know?
So I I love that.
1151
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,080
OK, cool.
Yeah, I don't know why, but the
1152
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:35,120
first place, like when you said
you had a Dennis Rodman tattoo,
1153
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:39,320
I just imagined Dennis's face.
That would be hilarious though.
1154
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,640
Just Dennis Rodman's face on the
back of my arm.
1155
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:44,800
Oh my God.
And and face tattoos are tough.
1156
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,840
So like if somebody like would
have not done like the greatest
1157
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:49,800
job, it would have been like,
who is that?
1158
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,640
Is that Dennis?
Yeah, yeah, that's one thing I
1159
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:54,920
wouldn't do is a face tattoo,
but it's like a, it's a little
1160
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:58,400
graphic artsy one which is like
the back of his head, but you
1161
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,960
know who it is.
That's one of my Oh, there's one
1162
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,120
of.
My favorite areas of like the
1163
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:07,240
depths of the Internet are like
messed up face tattoos.
1164
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,920
Where are we going with this?
I got scared like.
1165
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,520
Oh God messed up face tattoos
are the best.
1166
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,440
Yeah.
Or, or like obviously
1167
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,800
misspellings and stuff, but
like, yeah, oh, I could, I could
1168
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,480
keep, I could continue.
I was like, what rabbit hole are
1169
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:25,280
we about to go down?
Oh God.
1170
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:30,720
Yeah, well, yeah, that's a lot
how I operate that just say, you
1171
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,880
know, hear about something and
then it's like, man, this brings
1172
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,480
you to thinking about something
just completely off the wall.
1173
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:37,640
But then it goes full circle.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1174
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:39,080
Always.
And then and then you end up,
1175
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:40,880
yeah.
Is it figuring something out
1176
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,960
like one of life's problems that
you never would have solved
1177
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:45,600
without talking about that?
I love it.
1178
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,600
Yeah, So what?
Like what?
1179
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,160
What are you, What are you
passionate about?
1180
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:53,360
What?
What gets you up in the morning?
1181
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,000
My brain thinks 10 million
things.
1182
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:05,600
Like, like I said, I'm very
passionate about a lot of
1183
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:08,600
different things, but most
overall like people.
1184
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:11,040
I would say, if I could sum it
up into one thing, I'd say
1185
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:15,800
people in the sense of I, we're
such enigmas and the psychology
1186
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:19,240
behind it of that plays into
everything that I do with the
1187
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:24,040
marketing, with clothing.
You know, just who are we and
1188
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,640
how do we continue to have those
conversations that we keep
1189
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:29,040
talking about?
That is literally this of, you
1190
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:31,280
know, let's sit down and just
have a really authentic
1191
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,000
conversation and continue to
learn more.
1192
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:35,760
Because even if I see you again
or I never see you again, you
1193
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:38,040
know, how many times do you have
that with people?
1194
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,360
And but you walk away and
there's stories that like you're
1195
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:43,880
still talking about 30 years
later that my parents tell me of
1196
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,960
like this random person that
this guy has, you know, there's
1197
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,240
this one about this guy.
His name was Willy Boatman.
1198
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:51,160
Willy Boatman, for all we know
is dead.
1199
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:56,400
He or he has no idea that he has
been in our household for years,
1200
01:01:56,600 --> 01:02:00,360
but how cool like an authentic,
genuine story that was shared
1201
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:04,480
with my parents with this guy
and and carries on of like, you
1202
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:08,120
never know where that is for you
with other people.
1203
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:11,280
And that.
Yeah, we're really just we're
1204
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:13,320
doing this thing called life,
You know, we're all trying to
1205
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:16,000
find like this answer.
And while yes, there's a lot of
1206
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:21,240
answers out there, it's also
cool in that like and being very
1207
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:27,880
content with, we don't know, we
have no idea how human beings
1208
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,360
are walking around in this
little earth like where we
1209
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,200
sprouted from.
You know, we have ideas, we have
1210
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,360
theories, we have all these
things which are beautiful.
1211
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:37,560
And in my opinion, none of them
are wrong.
1212
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:39,520
Who am I the hell to tell you
that?
1213
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:42,400
Oh, you know, that's not right,
especially if maybe you know,
1214
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:45,360
religion as an example.
Who am I to tell you that that's
1215
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:47,280
wrong, or that you're right or
you're wrong?
1216
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:50,320
I don't.
I am nobody to tell you that,
1217
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:51,800
you know.
But like, why is it not all
1218
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:54,000
real?
If collectively that many people
1219
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,240
believe in these things, it is
real.
1220
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:59,280
It does not make it real.
Yeah, it might not make it 100%
1221
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:02,160
true, but it makes it real.
It exists right in this form of
1222
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:05,920
reality and it's like, you know,
where do these things come from?
1223
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:09,200
And continuing to explore that
and learn from it is awesome.
1224
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:13,000
But very much being like content
and serene and knowing that just
1225
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:17,240
whatever it is, however we got
here, I'm just really grateful
1226
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:20,120
that for some reason I was
picked to be a human being that
1227
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,240
gets to consciously experience
life, you know, and how cool
1228
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:25,840
that other people in my life get
to do that too.
1229
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:27,800
I couldn't agree more.
Yeah, absolutely.
1230
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:29,160
Yeah.
Yeah.
1231
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,440
Paul, you never heard of a guy
named Paul Thorne?
1232
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:32,960
He's a musician.
He has a song called You might
1233
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:34,200
be Wrong.
You'd probably dig it.
1234
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:36,640
OK.
It's really cool.
1235
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:40,200
Whole concepts about how like,
how, how is anything absolute
1236
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:42,600
because like, how do we know for
certain, right?
1237
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:46,320
But yeah, I, I, man, I've never
thought about it through that
1238
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:49,560
lens, but I hope to be that
story in some people's lives at
1239
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:51,160
places.
Probably are for random.
1240
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:54,960
People, yeah, probably I, the
thing I have like and probably a
1241
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:57,240
lot of people have one that
comes to mind when you hear
1242
01:03:57,240 --> 01:04:00,000
that.
And so I'm, I like to make Maple
1243
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:01,880
syrup or harvest Maple syrup, I
would call it.
1244
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:05,280
And the first time I did it, I
was my wife and I were living in
1245
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:08,200
the UP at the time, and she
didn't know I was going to buy
1246
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,080
all this Maple syrup.
So like, she'd show up with.
1247
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,280
Yeah, I I drive.
I drive to the middle of nowhere
1248
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,480
in the UP and I'll never forget
this dude.
1249
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:17,800
His name was Hubie LaRue.
And.
1250
01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:19,560
And what a name.
Yeah, I know.
1251
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,000
It's amazing.
Yeah.
1252
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:24,120
And same thing, like, Hubie
might be passed on to the next
1253
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:25,160
realm.
I don't.
1254
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:28,640
He was pretty old at the time.
And this was going on 10 years
1255
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:31,080
ago pretty soon.
So like, I pull up to this
1256
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:32,600
dude's house.
I'd only talked to him on the
1257
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:35,040
phone.
My my day-to-day life was wild.
1258
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:36,760
At that time.
I was hosting this really unique
1259
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:38,640
radio show that was like a talk
show with people.
1260
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,880
So I was constantly connecting
and like, having these cool
1261
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:42,560
experiences.
Right.
1262
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:45,680
And I drive up to Hubie La
Roux's house in the middle of
1263
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:46,920
nowhere.
Hubie La Roux.
1264
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:48,520
Yeah.
And I ended up there for like 3
1265
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:50,160
hours.
We were there forever.
1266
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:54,000
He fell down twice when when we
were trying to pick up the stuff
1267
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:57,120
and like, we just meandered
through his whole place.
1268
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:00,080
And he pretty much like, it was
like an episode of this podcast.
1269
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:01,600
He like walked me through his
whole life.
1270
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,840
I love it.
And he had done some really like
1271
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,800
successful stuff in business and
he had made a ton of money.
1272
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:09,320
And he was just in the middle of
nowhere.
1273
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:11,000
You'd be now just existing, just
living.
1274
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:14,600
And he sells me this old like
Maple syrup stuff.
1275
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,120
But that's one of those days
where it's like, I'll never
1276
01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:20,080
forget walking around with Hubie
LaRue, like just 'cause he's a
1277
01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:20,880
unique dude.
It's.
1278
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:23,040
Like this long, unskippable
cutscene.
1279
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:25,760
That in the best way though.
Yeah, yeah.
1280
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:29,320
And you know, that's something I
try not to take for granted with
1281
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:31,080
the podcast.
It's part of the reason that I
1282
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:35,960
like do it 'cause like those.
And actually, I think I, I
1283
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:38,080
posted this as a thread or
something a while back about how
1284
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:42,200
like how lucky am I to get to do
this, to get like an hour, 90
1285
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,200
minutes of people's undivided
attention, right?
1286
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:47,600
Where they're willing to like
open up, right, and talk and
1287
01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:50,640
share and just explore what
humanity really is, right?
1288
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,600
How lucky am I to get to do that
constantly just because I have
1289
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:55,480
this goofy podcast that people
listen to, right?
1290
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,280
It's cool.
You know, it's really cool.
1291
01:05:58,480 --> 01:05:59,880
Yeah.
And I try not to take that for
1292
01:05:59,880 --> 01:06:01,920
granted because like.
People can then go listen to it,
1293
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:05,080
yeah, like in their car and
learn from those things.
1294
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,560
You know what's cool about that
is that's an angle I never
1295
01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:12,720
thought about until I had Steve
Brenzel or Ned the dead.
1296
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:17,080
I had him on the show and to
this date, his his episode has
1297
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:19,600
the most listens watches of any
of my episodes.
1298
01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:21,400
It's like he's a fantastic guy.
I love it.
1299
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:26,520
But afterwards, his thoughts, he
he he made it a point to call me
1300
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:32,520
and thank me for what we did
because now he had this thing
1301
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:37,480
that his kids could watch as he
aged and like a glimpse at the
1302
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:39,640
person, you know.
And.
1303
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:42,840
And I never thought about it
like that, especially through
1304
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:47,160
the lens of like Ned the dead
were like, his whole career was
1305
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:48,840
him playing a part.
Yeah.
1306
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:51,720
It was him doing something that.
Yeah.
1307
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:57,800
He's very, very funny.
He's very like jovial like that.
1308
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:00,000
He's like abrasive, kind of like
Ned the dead.
1309
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:03,040
He's like he's there, but still
Ned the dead wasn't him.
1310
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:07,480
He's Steve Brenzel and people
see him as Ned the dead.
1311
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:12,200
But now he has this thing that
he was happy about.
1312
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:13,880
Not because we shared about Ned
the dead.
1313
01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:16,160
And probably like he probably
doesn't care about that anymore
1314
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:18,960
because it's in the past.
But what he does care about was
1315
01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:21,960
him and telling his story.
And I had never thought about it
1316
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:25,520
like that.
I had that shifted my perception
1317
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:30,600
of it, and that's along the same
lens like those two things put
1318
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:32,440
together.
I couldn't agree more.
1319
01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:34,400
That's what makes me wake up in
the morning too.
1320
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:35,280
Or connect.
I love it.
1321
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:36,040
I love.
It.
1322
01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:37,800
Yeah.
And just sharing more of that,
1323
01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:40,920
like how we said content,
content can't give you a glimpse
1324
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:44,240
of that sometimes like in the
way you write something or what
1325
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:45,760
it is.
Like I was listening to the one
1326
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:50,800
with Door County Candle Company
and I did not know any of that
1327
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:54,400
of her story.
And I wouldn't have necessarily.
1328
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:56,600
I've saw all of her social media
along the way.
1329
01:07:56,800 --> 01:08:00,640
So it was cool to then hear the
actual story of like where that
1330
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:04,440
all came from.
And I wouldn't have necessarily
1331
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:07,200
gathered that just from reading.
If she would have put that into
1332
01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:10,840
a post, I would have never
gotten the same effect or the
1333
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,400
same knowledge in that way, you
know?
1334
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:15,080
There's just not the space for
it.
1335
01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:16,920
Yeah, there's not the space to
explore.
1336
01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:19,520
We've had AI mean you've come to
speak to my classes.
1337
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,640
We've talked to, we talked to at
your, at your event.
1338
01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:24,600
When would I have ever found out
you had a Dennis Rodman take 2?
1339
01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:27,720
A random summer day that you're
like, what the hell is that?
1340
01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:29,800
Yeah.
When I ran across like a, you
1341
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:31,640
know, down whatever city deck or
something like.
1342
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:33,359
Right.
It's the best.
1343
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:36,279
Uh huh.
Yeah, but that's a pretty good
1344
01:08:36,279 --> 01:08:38,200
reason to wake up.
Yeah, that's I feel.
1345
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:41,240
Very grateful.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1346
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,399
And that doesn't.
And it doesn't matter what time
1347
01:08:43,399 --> 01:08:44,960
that happens at.
It doesn't matter if it's at
1348
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:46,439
7:00 in the morning, 10 in the
morning.
1349
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:48,600
Back to that, Yeah, I definitely
it, it varies.
1350
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:52,479
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, well, it was awesome.
1351
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:54,000
Good to know you, Amanda.
Thank you.
1352
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:55,520
Thank you for sharing some of
your story.
1353
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:57,240
Yeah, thank you.
You.
1354
01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,800
I would wish you good luck on
bold, but you're not gonna need
1355
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:02,920
it you crushing it with what you
do.
1356
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:07,319
Thank you, I appreciate it.
Keep up the good work and share
1357
01:09:07,319 --> 01:09:08,720
the stories that need to be
shared.
1358
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:09,920
Thank you.
You too.